Eric Victor

Fitness advocate and writer, dedicated to helping others achieve their goals and live their best lives. Let's get moving

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[♤ @priest_099]

i'll text you first, keep conversations going, make plans, but if i'm the only one putting in the effort then I'm not going to keep trying

[♤ @priest_099]

I REMEMBER WE USED TO CHAT EVERY NIGHT NOW LOOK AT US WE DONT EVEN SAY "HI"
I REALLY MISS YOU

[Okolie Promise @promiseookolie]

The heart truly knows what it wants. You can't negotiate genuine love and you shouldn't have to beg for it.

Imagine watering a plant every day while the other person keeps uprooting it. No matter how much effort you put in, it will never grow.

Love is not supposed to feel like a one-person job. The right relationship is not about convincing someone to choose you, it's about two people choosing each other every day.

Don't force love. Let it be reciprocated. ❤️

[𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐏𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐞𝐫 @ThePreserverofU]

IF YOU'RE SINGLE AND YOU:

1) Don't approach girls.
2) Wait for them to text you first.
3) Fear rejection more than loneliness.
4) Overthink and never make a move.
5) Stay stuck in your comfort zone.
6) Keep saying "I'm focusing on myself" as an excuse.
7) Spend all your time with guy friends only.
8) Expect girls to chase you.
9) Scroll dating apps but never go on actual dates.

Then, how the f*ck you will find a girl broo?

You can’t manifest a relationship by sitting in your room hoping.
Women don’t magically appear at your doorstep.

If you want something, you have to go get it.

Build yourself, go out, talk to women, and take chances.

[The married man @marriedmn]

Before marrying her, ask yourself:

"Would I still choose this woman if beauty disappeared tomorrow?"

Because one day it will.

What remains is her character, attitude, loyalty, values, emotional stability, and how she treats you during difficult seasons.

That's what you'll actually be married to.

[Enugu Ezechiteoke @Onyekaa_Ezugwu]

Bro to bro:

Take your sexual health very seriously.

1. Not performing well: eat raw garlic before bedtime, ginger, red meat, honey, ginseng, cinnamon

2. For strong and harder erections: eat pomegranate, maca root, beetroot, watermelon, zinc vitamin.

3. To boost strength and stamina: eat Eggs, banana, dates, coconut water, and practice kegel exercise

4. For healthier sperm: eat walnuts, eggs, avocado, tiger nuts, almond, oysters

5, take Avocado for a good heart.

6, orange for your colon health.

Do all these consistently and your overall sexual health and health will improve within some days.

Repost for others to learn!

[Shubhvani @shubhvanii]

Judging a woman.....

based on her group of friends will save you a lot of time and trouble.

[Chitra @just_chitraa]

A Man with purpose doesn't have all day to give you. He's busy building a future you'll one day benefit from.

Dear ladies, don't let unemployed people convince you that your man "doesn't care" just because he isn't constantly available.

You think he prioritizes his work over you. But he literally prioritizes his work because of You..!

[LLONER 🦅🪐 @eyojoel77]

According to attachment theory, genuine love is reflected in how someone responds to your pain, not just your presence. When someone truly values your wellbeing, their deepest fear isn't losing access to you - it's causing you harm. But when someone only loves what you provide for them, they fear losing their supply, not hurting your heart. This subtle difference reveals everything about whether you're loved for who you are or what you give. Notice which one keeps them awake at night.

[valentine @valawakened]

I'm forever a fan of intellectual conversations. Let's have candid talks about love, life, people, experiences, movies, books, big topics-anything and everything. Let's just sit and talk without the constraint of being right or wrong. Let's explore the depth of each other's thoughts and perspective.
Let's share with each other the gift of intensity.

[LLONER 🦅🪐 @eyojoel77]

everybody is not receptive to mature conversation.

people are easily offended when you confront them with issues you have with them. they take it as a personal attack & not an opportunity to repair a disconnect & strengthen a bond. I lost all of my energy to argue. I'm actually okay with being misunderstood, not repeating myself, not working to fix every little disagreement.

Everyone will not hear you, nor are they interested in hearing you, and I've learned to be okay with saving my energy

[Unfiltered @quotesdaily100]

Smile at one person = Kindness
Smile at everyone = Character
Smile through pain = Strength
Smile without reason = Peace
Smile when misunderstood = Grace
Smile under pressure = Composure
Smile at a stranger = Connection
Smile at yourself = Self Love
Smile through failure = Resilience
Smile as a default = Joy
Smile when you want to cry = Courage
Smile at those who doubted you = Dignity
Smile and mean it every time = Authenticity

[Adaeze @Ada_mamasita]

A lot of people are single not because their standards are "too high," but because they want a high-value partner while offering low-effort energy.

You cannot expect a soft, peaceful, and secure relationship when your own mindset is chaotic and defensive.

Like attracts like. What exactly do you think your current energy is attracting?

[LLONER 🦅🪐 @eyojoel77]

It's extremely important to learn how to be ok on your own. You have to learn how to pick yourself back up when you fall, provide for yourself, wipe your tears away & make yourself happy.
Having people there for you is truly great but you can't depend on them to always be there

[Man Directive @mandirective]

WHAT DEFINES A REAL MAN

• A real man keeps things private — he doesn't kiss and tell
• He notices the details — your hair, your nails, the effort you put in
• He calls you beautiful — because he values more than just your looks
• He checks in on you daily, no matter how busy life gets
• He forms his own opinion about you — he doesn't rely on what others say
• He genuinely enjoys your presence and never gets tired of being around you
• He shows affection in simple ways — like a forehead kiss out of nowhere
• He's honest with you — even when the truth isn't easy to say
• He makes sure you feel safe, calm, and cared for
• When you say you need something, he shows up — no questions, just support

Real isn't loud. Real is present.

[Faith Tabernacle @ft_canaanland]

Every encounter with God's Word is an encounter with destiny.

In this service, you are sure to encounter destiny by the power of God's Word and through the ministry of the Prophet.

#EncounterWithDestiny
#LFCLiveService
#OpenDoors2026

[𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐏𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐯𝐞𝐫 @ThePreserverofU]

HOW TO READ PEOPLE

1) Personality is revealed by how they laugh.
2) Discipline is revealed by their nails.
3) Background is revealed by how their sit.
4) Intentions are revealed by their eyes.
5) Status is revealed by their shoes.
6) Confidence is revealed by how they walk.
7) Loyalty is revealed by where they look.
8) Intelligence is revealed by how they listen.
9) Maturity is revealed by how they argue.
10) Respect is revealed by how they treat people who can't help them.

[alpha man @alphaman_111]

People always know what they’re doing.

The silence.
The distance.
The lies.

None of it is accidental.

They know when they’re ignoring you.
They know when they’re playing with your feelings.

It’s not confusion—it’s a choice.

People understand the impact of their actions.

So yes, take it personally.

It shows you exactly who they are and exactly where you stand in their life.

Stop giving chances to people who have already shown you your place.

[LaShonda 🌸 @firstladyships]

Not every relationship deserves fixing.

Some people aren't meant to grow with you. They're meant to reveal who they are, teach you a lesson, and leave.

The hardest truth is that some connections only survive when you tolerate disrespect, betrayal, or constant disappointment.

Not every ending is a tragedy.

Sometimes losing them is the upgrade.

[Sara @sarahshine007]

@priest_099 @xpxpchemistry some people become a chapter in our lives while we quietly make them the whole book 💔