DANDELION

Pisces .. free spirited

[Beyond The Narrative @BeyondProtocolX]

@evanmgoodrich My ancestors did not survive plagues for me to read this. I deserve financial compensation for having processed these words.

[Nonku Mhlongo @nonkululeko1402]

Date canceled bafazi, he thought that I had money and I also thought that he had money. We were attempting to hustle each other out.🤣🤣🤣

[DANDELION @Eryka_Badu]

@Bunny_ngl Yes

[Ndlolothi @ManqobaMbuli_]

“Ey Mina Ngyathandwa ekhaya” will always be my biggest flex. Ukuth ini Nani ,kanjani, anghlangani and I’m not phased. Knowing that no matter what goes wrong in the world , home is always where I can go to feel cherished, appreciated ,loved seen, heard and safe . A blessing to the soul I tell you🙏🏾

[The Lord Of The Wings( Lisa) Arsenal Biggest Fan🏐 @WhyUfikelate]

Amahle Thabethe has been missing since July 2019 with no trace. Anytime you see missing posts about her, please always share. I know answers will come about this angel one day. We must never give up. So today, I'd like to bring her up again.
#womenshutdown

[DANDELION @Eryka_Badu]

@OneLuckyGirl_28 Financial overflow and abundance

[10enth @whotfis10th]

@stepppa333 "...Have you guys never been to a festival?😭
Calling me a hoe over this picture is insane."

[Princess LIL BIT 💫 @thatgirlmulaa]

Brush ur child’s teeth‼
Clean ur child’s ears ‼
BATHE YOUR CHILD ‼
Moisturize ur childs skin‼
DO YOUR CHILDS HAIR‼
Dress ur child neatly ‼
Pack ur child’s bag with everything he/she needs‼
Read to ur child‼
Feed ur child‼
Don’t miss ur child’s doctors appointments ‼‼‼

PUT YOUR CHILDREN FIRST ‼‼‼too many of y’all don’t know the first small steps about being a parent ‼

[Sibu Mabena @sibumabena]

Guys… sorry for this very unsolicited advice but having recently lost my mom and now having to consolidate all of her affairs, (lucky for me, sis was quite organised but there are still some gaps we’re filling because we didn’t know), I have some tips for those who have a chance to try to get organised.

If your parents are still alive, here’s what you can TRY to do (cos I know some of them are very untrusting about stuff and will think you’re trying to come for ilefa prematurely 🥺🫣) but honestly, the peace I’m yearning for right now will be worth the effort I’m advising you to employ.

1. Prepare a file that has the following:
- Parents’ ID copies
- Parents’ Marriage Certificate (even the one from the lobola meeting)
- Parents’ Divorce Decree if divorced
- All title deeds reflecting their names and car ownership papers
- Municipal bills for the properties and logins to the e-portals for the municipal accounts (this is one of the most stressful things to sort out when the owner is no longer alive…YOH!)
- Bank statements (you can locate debit orders)
- Their pension fund administrators details
- Any business registration certificates and shareholders certificates
- Copies of all their latest policy schedules
- If your parents trust you and you won’t scam them, A list of their logins to their email addresses
- A list of their financial advisors and lawyers and doctors and their contact details
- A list of their creditors and contact details
- A list of their debtors and contact details
- An asset registry with a list of all their assets
- A list of their monthly bills (Dstv, telkom etc and the statements)

2. If this is at all possible, it will save a lot of headache
- Have a meeting with your parents and your siblings to allocate roles and responsibilities in the event of death and record it (written usually or visually if they’re okay with that)
- Write down what their wishes are for their send offs (where do they want to be buried, do they want cremation, singing on singing, which church must conduct etc etc and where the money for all this is coming from). Yea, they won’t be here to dictate to you (🫩) but, it will save you a lot of stress just doing what umufi asked for and everyone (especially the aunts and uncles) know it to be true

3. When your parent does pass away, have the following in the “deceased file”
- Death certificate (and certified copies)
- Hospital or Coroners report or notice of death
- Updated ID with stamp saying Deceased
- Burial notice
- Undertaker Notice

Lastly… get your parents to draft a will with a lawyer and nominate an executor whilst they are still alive 😭🥺😮‍💨 if you can invest in this, it will ease the administrative burden on you guys who have to take over when they are no longer alive.

Losing a parent you are close to is one of the most painful things you’ll ever experience in your existence… help yourself by not having to be in pain and highly frustrated because things weren’t organised when you had the chance.

* I know this is a very difficult subject to tackle at home…and it’s even more difficult to accept the reality of death… but if you do have the privilege of a good relationship with your parents, just try. For everyone else who doesn’t get to do this, I’m really sorry 🫂 I wish things could be better for you ❤️‍🩹

I hope this helps many people.

[PopPulse @PopPulseSA]

Congratulations to Lebogang 'The Funny Chef' Tlokana on her first pregnancy. 🤰🏿

[KHABONINA™ @Khabonina_Q]

It was an absolute privilege 🖤
Thank you angels for making this story so beautiful to tell. Watched it through you. The plan was indeed to make you FEEL & react exactly as you did.
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH🤍
We do it all FOR YOU 🥹🙏🏾🤍
#Storyteller #Honoured #Loved #African 🇿🇦❤️

[Berita @BeritaAfroSoul]

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[The Instigator @Am_Blujay]

FOUND , UNFORTUNATELY DECEASED !

Thank you for sharing

[۟ @headnavy]

@Glock_Topickz A bad partner is also a bad father btw

[Sunday🌗 @hayin_uAvu]

Amantombazana uku tefa has to be their favourite thing “ babe ndivuke intamo yam ibuhlungu”. Lol ndiyithini mna le ntamo because i am not even there😂😂😂. Kuxelwa nezipho elophukileyo

[Berita @BeritaAfroSoul]

Best decision I ever made was to look ahead 🎓🤍🍾

[Essie @Essiex2a]

I am not gonna comment, just leaving people to seê for themselves what we have to put up with

[Abahambe Majola🇿🇦🇷🇺 @LadyAbahambe]

They deliberately don't want to give qualified South Africans jobs they call it (internationalization) what the hell is that? 😭