OKAY you know what i used to be a dumb shit who was anti bi/pan lesbian and blocked and got blocked by a lot of ppl in return so i think! i'm gonna remake this acct and re-follow everyone i care about lol
alrighty time to go through and clean out my follows since i need to uhhhh basically start over with this acct lol. should probably revamp my carrd too
@ApidaeC people who want us /dead/. it doesnt matter. human sexuality is messy and complicated and i would much rather have a community that accepts people for who they are, as a big messy complicated mess, instead of turning people out into the cold over arbitrary labels and standards.
to clarify my stances:
-gatekeeping is stupid and only divides the queer community, distracting it from the REAL issues that need focusing on
this means:
-bi/pan lesbians are a thing
-queer is not a slur
-neopronouns and microlabels are not dirty or bad
-het trans ppl are queer
@ApidaeC that's an interesting reach considering im wlw lol. and yeah, i used to think so too, but then i realized that it doesnt really matter! community infighting is incredibly harmful and does nothing but tear us apart instead of letting us stand shoulder to shoulder against the real
@ghastlyCordial @ABlackGlare imagine being an exclusionist. couldnt be me. maybe we should focus more on the fact that queer people are literally murdered for being queer instead of, you know, some words that people call themselves.
@turntechroadhed yeah there were some russian minors in there which like. could you imagine if someone in fucking china or something tried to call you out for shipping stridercest???? fucking bizarre
-bi ppl in a "het" relationship are still bi and still queer
-trans men do not have "male privilege" since, as they are trans, they're still at a MUCH higher mortality rate
-aces are queer
-aros are queer
i might not use this account much but i want to say that i am very firmly pro ship. if anyone wants to talk to me in good faith about anti vs pro ship rhetoric my dms are open!!
@mindfxng @sapphicFishfckr oh hey thanks for the free promo for my nsfw acct please add this one it's my sfw acct on there too thanks and love you xoxox