@Adabear_Art I will never understand how anybody ever sleeps without earplugs. The number of weird sounds that occur at night is always horrible, regardless of whether it’s a sleep deprivation hallucination
@GeneralDreagon I definitely have the same misgivings about password apps, but considering I used to use the same password for everything, the password app my workplace makes me use is probably at least more secure than that.
@birdbrainmd3 lol yeah there were a couple occasions where my fam went out to dinner without me and didn’t tell me (what was that about lol) and I walked around the house checking for mysteriously dropped clothing piles that’d indicate I missed the rapture 🤷♂️
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@Cynebeald Especially in cases where one person may simply be unable to accomplish as much as others, being scored numerically in a faux-objective way wouldn’t be the best.
But my partner and I are very guilt-prone people, so those without constant anxiety might be perfectly fine
@Cynebeald Well the problem I have with points is guilt as well as resentment when doing the chores.
say you don’t perfectly assign points, or ppl aren’t completing 100% the same point value of chores. Quantifying the chores as an effort number depersonalizes it and can become a score
@Cynebeald Specifically just ordered lists/rankings and not assigning flexible number values to each task. Makes it a lot simpler than trying to make up arbitrary numbers, and nobody can mess up results by hating all chores equally.
@Cynebeald Point systems are pretty dicey imo, socially?
I’ve thought one strategy might be to have each participant create two rankings of chores; how much they dislike doing the task, and how much they value seeing it done.
Many potential ways 2 utilize those results but dunno the best
@Williesillie2 I wish I could get my hair to do that 😔 is the key sucking ass? Do I have to be trash? Steal empty raw meat packages out of the garbage and stow them in my bed?
Ig my hair will continue to be far straighter than myself