Franklin Chukwukere

I am Fabulous😉|

I am Franklin😎|

[Franklin Chukwukere @FabFranklin01]

YES!!

[Chris Ani @iamchrisani]

We all gonna make it
If we keep trying and don't give up

Yes ??

[Franklin Chukwukere @FabFranklin01]

Imagine giving a B.NSC to a primary school child instead of testimonial just because he or she wore scrub and knows the definition of nursing or was able to provide PCM for her colleagues in the interspot imagine am naauuu

That what you my men’s do when you carry some kind

[Franklin Chukwukere @FabFranklin01]

@Teeniiola 🤣🤣🤣

[Franklin Chukwukere @FabFranklin01]

This is so true!
Birthdays of children are now largely celebrated on WhatsApp status with AI cake and pictures.

Equally, birthday parties are largely being thrown by the rich in their rich neighborhoods with their rich friends and families in attendance.

I really miss that era.

[gaangbaanger🌈💗ྀི🇨🇼🇨🇻 @6ixofwandz]

Children of the VERY average Nigerian used to have birthday celebrations. The parents would rent canopies, cook and invite djs. There used to be parties and the entire neighborhood would gather to celebrate w the child. I don’t hear birthday music anymore. There’s nothing left

[Cecilia Adeyemo @AdeyemoCecilia1]

School of Nursing (RN)
School of Midwifery (RM)
Postgraduate Diploma in Education (PGCert)
BSc in Nursing
MSc Healthcare Management and Leadership
PhD in Nursing
Lecturer, Nursing Education and Administration
Associate Professor of Nursing
Dean, College of Nursing Science

[🍂 @Lovandfear]

Someday I will have my own place. My world won't be confined to my room. I will stumble sleepily through the house in the morning, opening the blinds. I will sit out in the backyard and look at the stars. I will go out whenever I want to. I will survive long enough to have that.

[Franklin Chukwukere @FabFranklin01]

@OgeDichiVic The utonwa I speak isn’t on this app

[Franklin Chukwukere @FabFranklin01]

@OgeDichiVic “Treat women how they ought to be treated, not how they want to be treated ”- John Doe
This teaching is again validated.

It seems you and utonwa are from the same clan

[𝐈𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐞 𝐊𝐥𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐠 @iamklausenburg]

Common pattern you'd get from a woman after she's been caught cheating:

1. She denies

2. Observe how solid your proof is

3. If solid, she begins to cry

4. Promises to never do it again

5. Lies that it happened once

6. Okay, admits it happened more than once

[𝑨𝒚𝒐𝒅𝒆𝒍𝒆 @AyodelePhotos]

Father and Daughter bond>>>😍
Would you like to be a girl dad?

[Franklin Chukwukere @FabFranklin01]

@iamklausenburg “There are things your woman will say and you zero your mind that you have wasted your years with her as a girlfriend.”

That’s all there is to say.
It’s a good thing the man was able to pick the cues.

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Before you decide to go and cheat on your man.

Tell yourself this.

"I want to go and cheat. If I get caught, I'll not beg my man because I was the one that decided to go and cheat. I planned it carefully, & I know what I am doing. And I don't expect my man to forgive me".

End.

[NneChukwu! @Okeke_Uz]

My husband is a great cook. But immediately he married me, he forgot how to. I made sure of that. Yes. How dare he enter my kitchen to cook? Who goes him? 😂

You see, the dynamic of my marriage is different and the same applies to others, but one thing I cannot stand is watching my husband cook when I am there. I do not feel comfortable because it is not his role.

Cooking is not a man's responsibility in the family.

My dad cooked for us and we loved it, but it was mostly because my mother was at her place of work. And those were some of the most beautiful moments we shared with him.

I guard my kitchen like crazy. That is where what feeds the soul and body of my family comes from. Even when my sisters visit, I do the cooking. They can dish. They can assist with getting things ready, but the cooking? I do it.

There is this joy I feel cooking for my family. What better way to transform raw ingredients into cooked meals and watch your husband and children enjoy every bite.

I remember the different times I had to go for residentials at Unilag. The children would always be excited because he would cook for them and give them all the extra things I ordinarily refuse to. But immediately I set foot in the house, their good time ends. Back to status quo. ụnụ na onye ga ana ewaste nri, ndị na amarọ ka mmanụ si akpata ego 😄

Cooking is a big deal for me. I express so much love to my family through it and they know it. It is so telling that if my food is salty, everyone is concerned, because most often it means I am troubled. That is how deep it goes.

Men would rather eat what their wives prepared than eat outside, except you are naturally a bad cook or something is broken in the marriage and needs fixing.

Men that brag to their friends about their wives' culinary skills. Men that will quietly set up a small get-together at home so their friends can come and taste their wives' cooking.

No matter how we try to paint these things with Western colours, there are roles for partners in a marriage. Those roles are not cast in stone but they are clear. Your husband goes out to hunt and you turn that hunt into a meal for your home.

In a situation where you both go out to hunt, it rests on your wisdom to navigate things well. You can choose to order in large quantities, cook large amounts of food on a free day, or get someone to come home and cook for you. Your choice entirely.

But that your husband SHOULD cook because you are both equal partners? ị dhara ya!

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

One of the best writings I've seen. I first came across it in primary school. It is still valid till date.

Teach Son.

[𝐈𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐞 𝐊𝐥𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐛𝐞𝐫𝐠 @iamklausenberg]

Most men haven't fathomed the indepth concept in the statement,

"It's what men ALLOW that women will do."

They've got no clue that their response to abusive innuendos from a woman determines whether she'd go through with it.

A woman will threaten to physically assault a man, and you'd hear the idiot asking,

"What have I said now that you want to slap me?

Or

Why will you slap me?"

Someone who's supposed to know what you can do to an abusive woman through movies y'all watch together.

What am I talking about? I am glad you asked.

When I'm watching movies, local or foreign ones, where the man is slapped and he just stands their and takes it or waits for an apology.

I'll say loudly, "All these movies and their idiotic propaganda. How will you slap a man. Aren't you afraid?"

My ex would ask me, "So, if it was you now. What would you have done? She's a woman now."

Without mincing words, "If a woman ever tried that with me. She will lose a tooth or two."

Then, I'd notice the body language from them, showing their displeasure because I'm supposed to be a "real man."

And I will now add, "Luckily, such would never happen. I don't date stupid or foolish women."

It's a push and pull trick.

On one hand, it's established that I will never take abuse from a woman.

On the other hand, it's established that it's only a foolish woman that'd hit a man, and they won't want to be foolish.

A man should have fire in his eyes as he says to his girl who has threatened to hit him, seriously or as a joke,

"I dare you. If them born you well, try am."

Women look at your tolerance level and gauge what they can or can't get away with.

They are very subtle about it, and it's established in ways that you, the man, won't notice.

Some women are very toxic and would want to force you to walk your talk.

When you encounter such a person, for the sake of her life and sanity, out her in her place.

If she goes ahead to slap you, clear her 500 asap asap.

It will never happen again. Slap is too disrespectful to let it slide.

Before the slap happened, let me walk you through the likely things that emboldened her, that you didn't notice.

1. You ate her nyansh during sex

2. You told her that you'd never hit a woman no matter what

3. She sent you on an errand, and you rushed, without hesitating, to do it

4. You agreed with her fact that her stupidity is because she's Aries

5. You always found one-sided abuse (female on male) cute, etc

Women don't just wake up and hit a man or cheat on a man or disrespect a man.

They were once naive and respectful and loyal, but something disrupted that sequence.

It's because a man, directly or indirectly, intentionally or unintentionally, laid that foundation.

There is nothing that women have become that men didn't allow.

To lack the capacity to be dangerous is the most dangerous thing that can happen to a man.

Your masculinity is not just for protecting others but for protecting you as well.

I don't know where you learnt "never hit a woman, no matter what."

It is a nonsensical gynocentric indoctrination that's geared towards making you feel like somethings wrong with you, by default.

As such, you'd feel like you deserve to be abused, even when you've done nothing wrong, because you are a man and "a man isn't innocent."

Wake up!

A man has to be TEMPORARILY hated for the greater good of his family, and that family includes him.

Defy the females in your lives because it's for a good cause.

If you allow your daughters to always beat up your sons during a fight and you hold your sons back.

They'd never realise that it's dangerous going toe to toe with a man.

If you don't tell your sisters the implications of robbing John to give Peter.

They won't know when they become prostitutes.

If you apologise to your wife because she'd MADAM and for "peace to reign" even when she's wrong.

[𝐈𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐞 𝐊𝐥𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐠 @iamklausenburg]

HOW WOMEN INVEST IN MEN🍑

Unlike men, women are triggered or irritated by labels.

Very few women will watch you call them a "gold digger" and not lash out.

Women don't always have money to invest in their relationships with men.

So, they invest through other means that are within their capacity.

A woman can invest in you first, with her respect and submission.

That's the number one way for her to invest.

Then, she invests her most prized asset, her body, followed by time, attention, and care.

If she respects you and submits to you, it makes the other things easy.

Here are examples of how a woman invests in their man:

- RECIPROCITY
• she will be open to reciprocate all you give her, not just the bad, i.e., the give and take.

- OBEDIENCE
• she will change the clothes you don't like her wearing

- CONTENTMENT
• she won't frustrate you with extravagant requests because she's in competition with her friends

- WISE ASSOCIATION
• she won't even compete with friends, because she'd have fewer friends who aren't bad, to be available for you

- RESOURCEFUL
• she will cook, clean for you, and wash your clothes, especially your boxers or singlets and be your errand girl

- TRANSPARENT
• she wants to share every detail about her daily activities with you

- GROOMING
• she will always ensure you look good and be a good ambassador of her when you are out with your friends

- NUMBER 1 ACOLYTE
• she'd relate with your friends, and make your enemies, her enemies

- INSPIRATIONAL
• she will psychologically trigger you to always be a better version of yourself every day as she reminds you of who your competitions are

- INVOLVEMENT
• she will financially, emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and socially support you always

- FEMININE OBLIGATION
• she will put your seed in the next generation, which is the greatest honour a woman can give a man

The hunger to be with you will always hover around her. The moment she's tipsy, you are the first person in her mind.

Be reminded that all these attributes aren't given to you because of how much you've spent on her.

It's given because of how much she believes in you and your capabilities seeing how focused you are in your purpose.

Women love a man who loves and invests more in himself.

In the end, you'll accept the love you think you deserve.

Learn or learn the hard way.

[Onwa_Nnewi @Kene_Nnewi]

Stop sleeping with a married woman.

Stop sleeping with a mensurating woman.

Stop sleeping with your blood relatives....

IGBO culture forbids them.

[𝐈𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐞 𝐊𝐥𝐚𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐛𝐞𝐫𝐠 @iamklausenberg]

It makes sense why women date and sleep with multiple men.

Men are the gatekeepers of commitment and marriage.

That's why.

They've got no control over who the man settles for.

So, to ensure that the man doesn't have ALL the power to decide her FATE, she keeps her options open.

Men do the same thing, too.

It's why they have multiple women they sleep with while committing to one.

It's because women are the gatekeepers to sex and childbirth.

As such, they don't want to relinquish their sexual power to one person.

Why is that? I'm glad you asked.

Because it's too much power and women, like men, tend to weaponise it.

It's why being at any human's mercy is a punishment of nature.

Back to the conversation.

Women feel justified to have multiple options because "you know how these men can be."

Fair enough.

As a man, you will fail your ancestors when you ALLOW a woman to settle for you.

You, the man, are the prize.

You won't be mocked for begging to put "only the tip."

And it gets to your turn for them to beg you because they are tired of visiting Shiloh, and you fall cheaply.

You see, women are quite aware that to bag a good solid man, you need to pray vervently for it.

But they'd manipulate you if YOU allow it into thinking that it is them who are the prize and are doing you a favour by being with you.

Because "if you see the men coming for my hand in marriage, ehen. You will hurry up."

Lori iro.

It's you, the man, who gets to define whatever you guys are doing.

Never be forced into a relationship that you don't wish to be in, all because you feel that if you don't, another man would.

Let that other man do, man.

The only thing you have as a man is your dignity and respect.

As such, you won't be forced into making a decision without certainty.

Women are very ruthless when they want to move on.

It's why, despite all said and done about how "good" women are.

It's is men, not women, who are the EMPATHS of the species.

That's why if a woman needs help. Her go-to is a man. If a man needs help. His goto is a man. If a child is in danger, their goto is a man.

Sadly, the world convinced all of us that men are bad and out to hurt women.

BS!!

Men are good people with a natural human flaw.

Gentlemen, never settle for less or be forced to compete for a woman.

It's women who compete for men because men are their purpose.

If you ever find out that the woman you are planning to say, "I do," is dating someone else.

Trust me, she won't say it, but she'd show it.

You are too "in love" and in denial about it.

Women show men who they are on a regular basis, just that men are naive to not want to believe them.

Now, women are human beings and should be treated with kindness.

So, if you feel like you've got a good woman who isn't from a wretched family and has a good relationship with the males in her life.

It's very fair that you cohabit with her for 6 months to a year and begin plans for commitment after a year plus.

They have a biological clock, and it should be considered for those who weren't caught double dating or cheating.

Now, if you figure out that out, she kept you as an option.

Don't say anything about it because she'd make you look foolish with the lies that'd follow.

You can choose the "gentleman" approach and simply ghost her.

But if she awakened your monster simply do these things

1. Put her through a series of abortion. She mustn't keep the child.

2. Date her for 7 years plus, whilst married to another woman she'd never know

3. Impregnate a close relative of hers and deny it

4. Give her the infection you contacted from another person

5. Turn her against her friends by telling them she paid you to rape them or set them up.

6. When she moves on, find a way to get through to the new guy and tell him she has aids.

Basically, make her life a living hell for thinking you are a stupid person and treating you like one.

See, women would do worse to you if you hurt them, as they should.

[Dipo Adepoju @DipoAdepoju]

If you are young, you have nothing and life does not make sense right now,

Please listen to this

This will change the way you think!

[Waggy ✞🏌️ @waggydey4you]

Everything wey Women dey go through na Man wey get money be the Solution.

But everything wey Man dey go through na only God be the Solution..💔🤧

[Franklin Chukwukere @FabFranklin01]

One day I’ll share my story

[MrBanks💰 @Mrbankstips]

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