As good as it is that online spaces have demystified transitioning, I think we need to add some magic back into it, so I propose we start talking like Dark Souls NPCs
"Ah you want the girl juice?
A noble quest, but is identity something you can fight for?
[disturbed chuckling]"
The "I wish I had dysphoria so I could be trans" to "You don't need dysphoria to be trans" to "It took accepting my identity to realize that actually the horrible feeling I've been living with for the last 15 years WAS dysphoria" pipeline.
You don't actually need a full plan when starting your transition or even have a solid idea of your identity or what you want. You're allowed to just freestyle it, take small steps, change your mind, change your mind again, etc. You're not doing an opera, it's more improv jazz 🤷🏻♀️