The most men do for you is shave and wash their dicks. You won't see them steaming it nor will they wax for you. You get whatever dick he serves. So why the fuck are you messing your PH & destroying good bacteria for your vagina? Stop, he'll get whatever pussy you serve you.
Jada and Will are strange and weird but your uncle who impregnated the whole village and has 8 wives is not strange. Just look deep inside you, it's only strange because your internalised Misogyny only expects women to accept their husbands affairs while they stay "faithful"