Mercy is when you can't even explain how you're surviving, but you are. You don't have it all figured out, but each day, God sends help right when you need it. Hallelujah.
Anyone who is home all day and expects the one away from home all day to come home to cook, is not a good person.
The responsibility is on who is home to cater to all. It is supposed to be common sense.
If your partner has gone to work all day and you’re are at home.
Especially if to they work for long hours
It is common sense that the person at home cook something for them in return.
Except you are physically and psychologically disabled, that’s why you will wait for your partner to cook for you.
Bottom like sha marry a good person who does not separate house chores.
I have a theory. I believe most husbands with side chics married the woman that was a socially safe choice.
It’s not the woman he actually wants. She’s the woman that would accept his shortcomings and allow him to move through the world freely.
When my wife arrived to the uk, she was already pregnant.
She could not get a job till she was 6month heavy.
When it was time to apply for maternity pay, they said she had not spent a certain amount of time working….
More like she had not paid enough taxes and NI to qualify for both workplace maternity pay and government assisted maternity pay.
So I work very hard to save enough for the leave and lack of pay from her side.
As a man, you cannot pressure your wife to go back to work after childbirth when she is not ready or when her body is not ready.
There are women who would tell you they want to, and you would need to be stern to stop them, because you know they needed more rest.
Don’t be that man who cannot hold the house till his wife heal properly…
Please don’t.
Marriage for women often just means inheriting a fully grown dependent who expects you to manage his schedule, his emotions, and his meals, while you simultaneously manage your own entire life.