Life is currently teaching you to be as selfish as everyone else. For too long, you may have believed that love meant constant sacrifice. Now life is showing you that the people who truly value you won't expect you to carry everything alone.
Develop a strong opinion of yourself so that other people's opinions have no power over your peace. Know who you are, what you've overcome, and what you stand for. Let outside noise become information instead of identity, and praise become appreciation instead of validation.
A wounded man will speak to his woman like she's a man, having logical back and forth arguments, analyzing her feelings, getting defensive, and unable to sense her emotions, which carry the truth of her message, which is usually just a desire for closeness, love and his support.
It’s time to claim everything you lost...everything that was stolen. It’s time to take back what belongs to you: your joy, your freedom, your livelihood. You’ve been robbed of so much for far too long. The time is now. Step into the light and claim what’s yours.
It's not about how you look. It's all about the energy you radiate, the aura you create, and the way you speak and move that leave an unforgettable mark. That's what truly makes you magnetic. Trust your vibes. Energy never lies.
We have focused on women enough and wired women to think of men. Men need to be wired to think of women too. Not just think of women when they need free labor and food. Think of women as humans. Humans who should be loved and respected.
You can learn a lot about people from what they lack. If they lack accountability, they'll shift the blame. If they lack communication skills, they'll say you're arguing. If they lack emotional intelligence, they'll call you sensitive. If they lack effort, they're not interested.
You don't have to stay invested in a career that no longer aligns with you. Reset. Restart. Refocus. As many times as you need to. Just don't ever give up, or doubt yourself. There's enough people around you doing that for you.
Waiting for someone to change for you and treat you right is often a trauma response. It also makes you tolerate a lot of disrespect because you don't want to lose people. Healing makes you realize some people don't deserve to be in your life, no matter how much you love them.
It’s not your job to understand why they mistreated you. It's your job to make sure nobody else gets the same chance to treat you that way again. The pursuit of understanding everything can be mentally exhausting. It can lead to anxiety as you grapple with unanswered questions.
The best way to end something is to starve it. No reaction, just don’t feed it. That’s where the true power lies. Where attention goes, energy flows. And when energetic patterns are broken, new worlds emerge. Don't return negative energy. Remove yourself. Create a new algorithm.
hardest pill i swallow this year was learning that no matter how good you could be to someone‚ no matter how much you love them‚ they can & they will turn their back on you and there’s absolutely nothing you can do but suck it up & keep moving forward