Franky | ADHD

just a person interested in everything

[Franky | ADHD @FrankyVerse]

Best jobs for ADHD brains:

(that won’t make you want to fake your own disappearance) 1/7

[APAJI @apaji_x]

BREAKING: Scientists confirm that the pile of things ADHD people refuse to throw away isn’t clutter.

Each object is an active memory anchor the brain is using as external storage. Moving it without asking doesn’t tidy a space. It deletes files.1/6

[Emergency 🌷 @X_sun_ny]

I'm a psychologist

and I can tell
when someone was never allowed
to be angry safely.

Not because they never feel anger.

Because it comes out
in other forms.

Here are the signs:

[Dia mond @diamonddinshi]

As a psychologist, I can't stress this enough:

Being single and having strong friendships is so much healthier than being in a strong relationship but having weak friendships..1/4

[Franky | ADHD @FrankyVerse]

@LClare51 This made my day honestly. Sometimes it's just about finding the right fit. Well done to him, and to you for backing him. ♥️

[Franky | ADHD @FrankyVerse]

Best jobs for ADHD brains:

(that won’t make you want to fake your own disappearance) 1/7

[Franky | ADHD @FrankyVerse]

These conversations aren't about finding a perfect partner.

They're about finding out whether you can build a relationship where both people are understood and respected. 5/5

[Franky | ADHD @FrankyVerse]

BEFORE YOU BUILD A FUTURE WITH SOMEONE WHO HAS ADHD, HAVE THESE 6 CONVERSATIONS: 1/5

[Franky | ADHD @FrankyVerse]

5. How should we handle household responsibilities? Agree on ownership, not a permanent reminder-manager arrangement.

6. What does accountability look like for both of us? Understanding ADHD should never mean ignoring the impact of behaviour. 4/5

[Dia mond @diamonddinshi]

5 relationship truths most people learn the hard way:

1. Love isn’t compatibility. You can deeply love someone and still have completely conflicting values, goals, or futures.

2. You can’t out-communicate a closed mind. Healthy communication requires two people willing to understand, not one person constantly explaining.

3. Unspoken expectations become resentment. Expecting your partner to read your mind is a fast track to constant disappointment..1/2

[APAJI @apaji_x]

WAIT WAIT WAIT — so apparently the specific silence that happens after someone hurts you — not punishing them, not shutting down on purpose, but the complete loss of words because the feeling is too large to speak — is a documented ADHD response with an actual clinical name.1/6

[David Saviour @Save_d001]

THINGS A WOMAN SHOULD DO TO MAKE HER MAN FEEL SECURE IN THE RELATIONSHIP. 🧵❤️::. 1//9

[Lammy @Lammyisback]

Neurodivergents what color is Thursday ?

[Dia mond @diamonddinshi]

“I can’t keep doing this alone,”

he says,
“Why are you starting a fight?”

She is trying to talk about a problem
she has been living with for a long time.

Her silence made it easier for him to overlook it.

It never meant she was okay. 2/2

[Moses @Mozes60]

WORKPLACE ADJUSTMENTS PEOPLE WITH ADHD ARE LEGALLY ENTITLED TO REQUEST WITHOUT EVER DISCLOSING THEIR DIAGNOSIS.

Most ADHD people have no idea these exist as a right, not a request.

[Dia mond @diamonddinshi]

ONE OF THE WORST PARTS OF LONG DISTANCE IS KNOWING EXACTLY HOW YOU'D TAKE CARE OF THEM IF YOU WERE THERE.

But being far away doesn't mean you have to stop trying..1/6

[ball. ぼーる @ball_2025]

論述で知らない概念が出てきて、手持ちの参考書と教科書を全部調べても出てこないとき、本を買い足すかどうかすっごく悩む。中古本も高かったし、かといって放置すると不安|(-.-;)こういうとき、どう判断してますか？ネットですか？
#大学院受験 #社会人の勉強垢

[Dia mond @diamonddinshi]

SOME MEN CALL IT A HAPPY MARRIAGE AS LONG AS SHE DOESN’T COMPLAIN.

As long as dinner appears.
The children are cared for.
The appointments are remembered.

And her frustration stays quiet.

But when she says..1/2

[Emergency 🌷 @X_sun_ny]

I’M A PSYCHOLOGIST, AND I NEED YOU TO UNDERSTAND THIS: NARCISSISTIC ABUSE DOESN’T JUST BREAK YOUR HEART.

IT CHANGES YOUR BODY.

[Emergency 🌷 @X_sun_ny]

If you parent, teach, or love someone with ADHD, bookmark this thread right now.

I just left a session where a child explained executive dysfunction with more clarity than any neurologist I’ve ever met.

1. They said: