THINGS THAT CAN MAKE A MAN LOSE RESPECT FOR YOU
1. Constantly abandoning your own boundaries.
If you repeatedly say something matters, then accept the opposite, your words can start carrying less weight: 1/7
8. You feel peace more than anxiety.
You aren't constantly wondering where you stand or bracing for the next disappointment. There's excitement, but there's also calm.
A lasting relationship should feel like a home, not a test.
Lasting love isn't found. It's built.
Through honesty, patience, effort, and daily choices.
If you recognize these signs, protect what you're building.
Save this.
6. You communicate openly, even when it's uncomfortable.
No guessing games. No silent treatment. You bring things up early, before they turn into resentment.
Hard conversations are a sign of commitment, not a threat to the relationship.
7. You celebrate each other.
Wins, milestones, small victories. You're each other's biggest supporter, not competition. 5/5
When someone is genuinely happy for your success, you know you're safe with them.
My brother was diagnosed with ADHD last year. He kept forgetting his supplements, then took them all at random times. Once he followed a proper schedule his doctor helped him build, his afternoons stopped feeling like a crash. Here's why timing matters for the ADHD brain.. 1//6
To the person with ADHD who feels behind in life:
There's no single timeline. Some people figure things out at 22. Some at 35. Some at 50.
You're not late. You're on your own path, and it still leads somewhere good. ♥️
Does it become part of how they thoughtfully navigate the relationship?
Or does it remain something they know about you without ever influencing how they behave towards you? 2/2
Sometimes you need to check whether being connected to them requires you to become increasingly skilled at recovering from them.
Pay attention to what someone does with the information they have about you. I’m talking more consequential information. 1/2
1. Understand the "Muted Hunger Signal"
All day long, daytime noise, movement, and stress (or daytime medication wearing off) block the vagus nerve signals travelling from their stomach to their brain.
At 6:00 PM, their stomach is genuinely empty, but their brain's fuel gauge is frozen on "Full." 2/6
WAIT WAIT WAIT — SO APPARENTLY WHEN YOUR ADHD KID REFUSES TO EAT DINNER AT 6:00 PM SAYING "I'M NOT HUNGRY AT ALL," AND THEN BEGS FOR 4 SNACKS AT 8:15 PM RIGHT AT LIGHTS-OUT—THEY AREN'T STALLING BEDTIME, THAT’S A REAL BRAIN GLITCH??
Yes, and neurologists call it "Interoceptive Blindness." Here is why an ADHD child's stomach only wakes up right when it is time to sleep: 1/6
I see I've made a lot of white women angry because I got nasty with a fellow white woman who got nasty with me first.
Once again reminding you DONT START NOTHIN, WONT BE NOTHIN
I am a staunch believer in supporting women.
But if a woman tries to come for me first?
Baby we share the same software, I know where our insecurities lie, why would you try to come for me when you're built like an oompa loompa?
BE BETTER
5 THINGS AVOIDANTS SAY THAT REALLY MEAN SOMETHING ELSE:
1. “You deserve better.” Translation: I’m not willing to change.
2. “I’m not ready for a relationship.” Translation: I liked receiving love, but not giving it back.
3. “It shouldn’t be this hard.” Translation: Your needs became a problem for me.
4. “I don’t know what I want.” Translation: I don’t want to let you go, but I won’t choose you either.
5. “I need space.” Translation: Disappearing is easier than having a conversation.⬇️