this is something we have to unlearn, parenting is signing up for sacrificing, its a shame she had to do that but you dont OWE a parent anything for making sure your basic needs are met and children should not ever feel that they are indebted to their parents for anything
People I went to high school with are really out here getting engaged/married/on baby #2 or 3 & I’m over just here eating my first meal of the day at 6pm.