Freggillicious

[Taiwo_junzi @taiwo_junzi]

A Must-Read for Both Men & Women!!!

What I want to say has been said over and time again. Yet, many of you have turned deaf ears on this matter!!!

Sadly, being Nigerian is one of the most difficult things in the world!!! Even war-torn countries have it much better than we do as a people.
You’re living in a country and an economy that’s designed to make you suffer and that’s why ordinary people will continue struggling.
And while you can’t choose the country you’re born into, you can’t choose your parents, cankerworms in power have made it such that you can do almost nothing to change the political and economic climate you’ve found yourself in, it’s expedient that you do not lose out on the only thing you can forge yourself - love and “community”.

Again, love should not be another luxury. It should be the one thing that helps people survive difficult times. So it’s strange when people tell hardworking adults to keep postponing love until they “make it”.

The reality is that many would still end up in low-paying hustles (teaching, local farming, small scale retail etc), even those earning moderately aren’t spared from the economic inconsistencies of this country, so for how long are you supposed to stay loveless?! Or in the guise of doubling one’s hustle, what more do you expect a dedicated teacher to do than organize tutorials and teach?! Is the economy not going to sap out most of the money he makes from all his hustle as a teacher?!
A farmer can farm more land, a trader can open shop earlier and close later. But none of that changes the fact that a bad economy will eat away all their income.

You can’t out-hustle a terrible economy so why are you subjecting yourselves to unrealistic love standards?!

Women, many of you have convinced yourselves that love must come with a certain lifestyle because that’s what social media sells. You want a man who already has everything, while refusing to see your own income as part of building a family. But ask yourself one question, where are these Odogwu men? Most of them are way older, already married, or are chasing women who expect less. Where does that lead you!??

Men, many of you are making the same mistake. You keep telling yourselves that you don’t deserve love until you’re rich. Some of you even leave women who are willing to build a life with you because you believe you must become a millionaire first. What you forget that is that most self-made millionaires become wealthy in their 40s or even later. Does that mean you should spend your youth alone, waiting for a future that isn’t guaranteed?!?!

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Many of your parents came from humble backgrounds. They built families with very little. Yes, it was harder but they made it work and your life is proof of that.
Today, many of you are educated and earning something, even if it isn’t much. That education should make you wiser, not more unrealistic. It should help you avoid wasting money on extravagant weddings just to impress some aunty or uncle from the village and people who won’t pay your bills. It should help you plan your family wisely, delay having children until you’re ready, and build together instead of trying to impress strangers.

Stop treating love as a reward for becoming rich!!!

If you’re responsible, hardworking, emotionally mature, and both of you genuinely desire one another and are willing to grow together, don’t let unrealistic expectations and “what will people say” rob you of love, something that money alone cannot buy.

Plan your life based on reality not social media fantasies!!!

Change or die!!!!!!

[Rasheed || Securities Counsel @AromokalaRashid]

Dear Cristiano,

I never planned to love a footballer this way.

I was never the kid with posters on the wall or jerseys on my back. I watched matches the way you watch weather. Casually. Indifferently. Then I saw you around 2008, falling apart on a pitch in Moscow. It was not the first time I had watched you play, but it was the first time I felt you. And I did not understand why a grown man's tears made my chest tighten.

But they did.

And from that night, something shifted. Not because you were the best ever, though you became that, but because you hurt like the rest of us. Only you turned that hurt into fire. Every free kick you took, every last-minute leap, every time the world counted you out and you rose anyway, I count my blessings that I was watching a refusal. A quiet, furious refusal to be ordinary.

I did not become a commentator because of football. I became one because of you. I wanted to be close enough to translate your greatness into words that wouldn't embarrass you. And sometimes, not always, but sometimes, I hope I got it right. I hope I did.

That night, Spain ended one of our dreams. And as you walked off, head high but eyes older than they should be, I felt something I wasn't ready for: the end of my own story too.

Because if I am honest, and I want to be, I don't know if I can call another goal with the same pulse. I don't know if I can find the same poetry in another name.

Maybe I will go back to what I was. Quiet. Unnoticed. Drawing plans that make sense, in a world that no longer has your curveball magic in it.

But I will carry you with me. Not as a legend, though you are that, but as the reason I found my voice and passion in football world.

Thank you, Cristiano. For the goals. For the tears. For making an ordinary person believes in impossible angles.

[Fear Bavaria 🇿🇦🔴⚪ @InshallahSZN]

"Messi = Talent, CR7 = Hardwork" is a brain dead casual take. I guarantee 95% of the population can work as hard as CR7 & never even be as good as Garnacho. Cr7 is one of the most talented footballers of all time. The hardwork just ensured he didnt waste his talent like 60% of insanely talented footballers do.

[𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑺𝒂𝒍𝒕 𝑶𝒇 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑬𝒂𝒓𝒕𝒉 @Shadaya_Knight]

To understand the hate for Cristiano Ronaldo, you have to understand how people relate to athletes and celebrities.

A lot of people live vicariously through them. They project their own hopes, insecurities, and identity onto public figures.

And in Ronaldo, people see everything they wish they could be but know they’ll never be.
Natural gifts: height, athleticism, looks.
Earned traits: obsessive work ethic, confidence, discipline.

That combination is almost unattainable. And it’s uncomfortable to look at.

This was never really about football. Objectively, a prime Ronaldo had everything a forward should have, and more. He was power, pace, technique, aerial ability, both feet, and a mentality built for big moments. He was several of today’s elite forwards combined into one.

The hate isn’t about goals or trophies. Ronaldo is a mirror. And for people who feel weak, lazy, or stuck, that mirror shows them exactly what greatness costs.

[Mr legacy @Mrlegacy99]

@Wizarab10 One day we watched a young dreamer from Madeira. Today we say goodbye to a legend.
Thank you for every goal, every comeback, every celebration, and every unforgettable moment. Football won't feel the same without you. Cristiano Ronaldo, your story will live forever. 🐐❤️
Love him

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

Thank you Cristiano ❤️

The Greatest of All. We will never forget.

[Daddy Faith @fbi_initials]

Lmao Someone inspired a generation through 23 years of consistency displayed in thousands of matches. Not just that, he showed that irrespective of your circumstances of birth, you can work really hard and be the best in whatever you do - and that no situation in life can write you off from being number one. He did all that while being cocky and a bastard - letting the world know that he doesn’t have to play stupid humility to be accepted because it is in the nature of greatness to have the world bow to it. Some of you don’t understand that if someone tomorrow comes out to win the World Cup, wins 10 ballon d’ors, wins 10 champions league titles - in which case the person would have surpassed Messi title-wise, CR7 will be still be our GOAT because no footballer will ever be able to replicate his unique story. And you see that unique story, because it resonates with millions of people, is why he will forever be our GOAT. And yes, we have low IQs.😂

[Toby @TomolaGroup]

Benjamin Graham built his entire philosophy on three words: margin of safety.

The idea is almost insultingly simple. If a bridge needs to carry 10 tonnes, engineers build it for 30. Investing should work the same way. Buy assets for clearly less than they're worth, so even your mistakes have a cushion.

You don't need to be right about everything. You need room to be wrong and still survive.

Amateurs ask how much can I make. Graham's students ask how protected am I if this goes badly.

That single question is why his most famous student is worth over $100 billion.

[Freggillicious @Freggy_Gags]

@iamwalebanks I've been watching Accesscorp closely since last year, and I can confidently say that that's one of the most grossly undervalued stock in the NGX.

[The East Guy @TheEastGuy1]

Man to Man,

If you have to squat with a friend, keep the following thoughts at the back of your mind.

1- It is not easy to accommodate another grown adult, no matter how nice or easy going they may seem.

2- You are an inconvenience that someone willingly chose to accommodate out of love, friendship, or kindness. Never forget that.

3- The day you move in should be the very day you start planning your exit.

4- Your host needs their privacy too, so try as much as possible not to be constantly in their face.

5- Your host has every right to feel choked, exhausted, or moody. It doesn't always mean they're angry with you. Sometimes adults simply need their space.

6- It won't always be rosy. Sometimes you'll disagree over little things. That's normal. Minor disagreements are part of living together.

7- Understand that your presence disrupts routines, schedules, and personal activities in your host's life.

Be considerate of that and don't take every mood personally.

As the squatter, it is your responsibility to ensure your host never feels suffocated in their own home.

Contributing to the welfare of the house is not optional. It is mandatory. You don’t chose, You do.

Cooking, helping in the kitchen, suggesting meals, and even taking the initiative to buy food once in a while should be part of your responsibilities.

Sweeping, cleaning, washing up, and making sure the house stays tidy should also be second nature.

Squatting with someone and refusing to contribute to the daily running and maintenance of the home is wrong.

Squatting with someone and buying food for only yourself is witchcraft.

Lastly, never overstay your welcome. Never overplay your rights, and never assume it is your home.

You are a guest. Read the room. Know when it is time to leave before unnecessary tension, resentment, and awkwardness set in.

Anyone who accommodates you has already done you a favor and great kindness.

Regardless of whatever misunderstandings may arise along the way, branding them a bad person simply because they could no longer accommodate you makes you an ungrateful person.

[The East Guy @TheEastGuy1]

As a man,

When you finally get your own apartment,

Kindly entertain the possibility that a friend may need to squat with you for a few days, weeks, or even months.

When that happens, give that guest or friend of yours the best hospitality you can afford.

There will be days you'll miss your privacy, but never give your friend an attitude or make him feel like an unwanted guest.

No temporary inconvenience is worth sacrificing a genuine friendship.

Most times, squatting is only temporary, and it may be one of the few moments in life when your friend truly needs you.

There will be frustrating days, but never fall into the temptation of talking down to your friend or making him feel like a burden.

Never deny a man a space to rest his head.

Today it's him. Tomorrow it could be you.

Be kind.

[Toby @TomolaGroup]

Who you keep around you is one of the highest leverage decisions for your financial future.

Making real money takes discipline, calculated risk and years of delayed gratification. People who have never carried that weight rarely understand what capital truly costs. Not just the money, but the time, energy and focus it takes to build and protect it.

You’ll notice them easily. They push you to spend when you’re trying to build. They call your caution stinginess. They hand out money advice with no idea of the risk involved. They treat your resources like something they’re owed.

But people who respect the grind are different. They understand compounding, they know how fragile wealth is, and they respect your boundaries around saving and investing.

Your circle shapes your money habits. Choose people who value earned money and long-term discipline, whatever their current income level.

Anyone who doesn’t know how hard money is to make will never respect what it takes to keep it.

Curate accordingly.

[Freggillicious @Freggy_Gags]

*Margin of Safety:* simply means buying an investment below its true value. It creates a buffer that reduces your risk and exposure if things doesn't go according to your plan.

[Nurseinvestor @abalu_uthman]

Margin of safety is key when you are making an investment decision.

Read about it today.

[Freggillicious @Freggy_Gags]

@abalu_uthman *Margin of Safety:* simply means buying an investment below its true value. It creates a buffer that reduces your risk and exposure if things doesn't go according to your plan.

[Nurseinvestor @abalu_uthman]

Margin of safety is key when you are making an investment decision.

Read about it today.

[Freggillicious @Freggy_Gags]

The propagators of 'Grace 2 Grace' tale wound counsel you to leave your 'Comfort Zone' if you want to amount to something in life, that '(locking-in)' in your 'Comfort Zone' would exponentially stiffle your growth, and reduce you to a life of mediocrity.

[Stephenia Omeh, MBA @StepheniaOmeh]

You can't expect someone from a poor family to master any skill.

To master any skill, you need support - this is why most accomplished people have upper middle-class parents.

If you can live rent free in a conducive environment provided by your parents when developing something, you will definitely master any skill you choose,

because you have no money pressure - so all your focus is in mastering your skill.

[Freggillicious @Freggy_Gags]

@baba_cave 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[Toby @TomolaGroup]

Whatever you’re going through, someone already solved it and wrote it in a book.

Reading is just borrowing 30 years of wisdom in one afternoon.

The cheapest mentor you’ll ever find costs the price of one book.

[Freggillicious @Freggy_Gags]

@the_goodfemi You people keep underestimating Accesscorp, time will reveal everything soon.

[Freggillicious @Freggy_Gags]

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