Narcissists personalize everything; the entire fucking universe gets interpreted through "what about me?" ... "how do I feel about this?"
99.9% of the universe is simply not about you. It does not make it bad, you can still have a great life.
The ocean is not about you, but you can still sail, surf, swim, and fish on it. And watching the sun in the sky (also not about you) set on the ocean is a tonic for the soul.
@GavinNewsom Trump is leaving in 3 years. What are you going to cry about when he's gone. Besides being anti Trump, what else do you bring to the table? Because California is significantly worse since you have been in office.