@GamblersWifey Please please focus your efforts on getting support for yourself now. Remember that you are not to blame for his addiction. Fixing him does not equal fixing you. Here to support you any way I can x
@Lifeafterbettin You are not destined to fail, you’re the strongest you’ve ever been because you are taking recovery seriously. Praise yourself for that. I would suggest seeking out some unbiased support to help you in this moment - have you seen the services @GamCare provide?
I’d confidently say 80% of my “winnings” ended up back in the pockets of online sites before they even reached my bank account. A welcome tightening up of reverse withdrawal regulations. https://t.co/ecXODlVyTD
My goodness. Seeing all the support and good vibes through Twitter is giving my heart a little pump tonight. I posted my story back in 2017 after my (final) rock bottom and met such a lovely bunch of people offering support. Seeing that grow within this community is so wonderful.
@supportingwome4@Lifeafterbettin BUT if progress on your recovery and getting that support is delayed because you have to ‘keep up the lie’ it’s time to let it all out. It’ll be tough, but you’ll have a clear (honest!) path ahead of you as a family (2/2)
@supportingwome4@Lifeafterbettin Chiming back in here, it’s reminded me that what works for one doesn’t work for all. In my situation, my finances affected me only. No kids or partner or borrowing from family. Number one for me was getting independent support, then I could focus on the debt. (1/2)
@Lifeafterbettin The guilt will feel overwhelming at times and you feel like you will never get out of it. It may even make you ask yourself if it’s even worth it but remember: that’s the addiction talking. Keep in a positive mindset, baby steps.
@Lifeafterbettin Take one thing at a time. You’ve made the right first step which is choosing recovery. Priority number 1 is not betting. 2 is getting finances in order. 3 is rebuilding trust and moving on with you life.
@mgaskell12 I had no idea the BM existed. I did all I was told to do: deposit more; opt into promotions; climb the VIP ladder. All on regulated sites. Tens of thousands lost. Not one account closure or well-being check.
@JimmyFolded Thank you for sharing Jimmy. They say the first step is always the hardest but continuing to bounce back and better yourself after relapse shows your true strength. Well done 👏
A topic that I've been thinking about a lot and keen to hear your thoughts: Should problem gamblers be refunded by online providers that the Gambling Commission has fined for breaching social responsibility rules?
@fincher_jake But if the operator had been fined for its part in not protecting vulnerable customers, is there not some shared responsibility for the fallout?