The books felt more like your parents see you more as objects or tools but some care about you beyond that and if you're powerful or accomplish enough they might treat you with some semblance of parental affection
the books always felt more like “oh your parents are busy and distant but they still love you” while the show is like “your parents are not human, they are gods. they will only communicate in demands, boons, and punishments. do they love you? does anyone?”