Always remember this,
When you are doing something extraordinary,
Something that adds value to the lives of people,
Not everybody will like you.
Some will applaud you, but some will fight you.
Some will genuinely want you to succeed, but some will want you to fail.
Some will smile at you in your presence but backstab you in your absence.
This is part of the progress. It is part of life.
As you live rent-free in the heads of your haters, don't allow your haters to live rent-free in your head.
Don't accept.
Raise your rent.
Kick them out and shut the door.
Let them throw tantrums away from your vicinity because they will derail your focus with their chaos.
Remember this,
In the modern gynocentric world, the most jealous people are not women. It is the men.
β Soy men and beta males.
Learn to ignore them because they are fighting anxiety in their chests and are, therefore, using you as a shield to hide from their failures.
Your focus, hard work, and success are a mockery of their weaknesses, which they lack the courage to address. So, they hang on you to escape facing their deep-rooted demons.
Here is what to do to rise above their pettiness, jealousy, and hatefulness:
β’ Have a daily routine.
β’ Have clarity of goals and purpose.
β’ Always be thankful.
β’ Focus on the delivery of your goals.
β’ Don't fear to upset people.
β’ Learn to say NO.
β’ Eat a healthy diet.
β’ Exercise and go to the gym.
β’ Read books to update your knowledge, skills, and attitude.
Finally, remember this:
- First, they will ignore you.
- Then, they will laugh and mock you.
- Then they will fight you.
- Then you WIN.
Lastly,
By the end of the day, it is you against yourself.
When the tide calms, you will be alone.
Everyone else would have gone, and it would be you against yourself.
Rise against mediocrity and be relentless in the pursuit of your goals.
Don't stop.
Be ruthless.
Be consistent.
Be focused.
You will win.
#BetterTogether