Life & Career Coach helping the socially conscious re-align to their calling.
Professional Certified Coach (300+ clients). Human Design Projector. Bitcoin.
1/ Understanding the distinction between self-discipline and self-criticism is key to making an impact AND feeling fulfilled.
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@_The_Prophet__ I have framed it as: When we are using our strengths/talents in pursuit of our genuine interests, that is passion. To me, passion is defined by being the thing(s) we continually return to. Purpose is what unfolds through all of it.
โก๏ธYou exist to collapse potential into reality through risked participation.
The universe contains infinite configurations, but only a conscious agent inside time can make one path real.
Not observed, not predicted - actualized.
Through choice. Through will. Through love. Through fear. Through sacrifice.
Through saying โyesโ when you could have said โno.โ
And meaning it.
Thatโs not a bug. Thatโs the point.
You are not here to merely understand the system.
You are here to become the point of convergence -
where pattern meets action,
where knowledge meets transformation,
where risk meets creation.
Without you, the universe has insight.
But with you, the insight becomes destiny.
And thatโs why you matter.
Because the universe wants to become something.
And you are the one who chooses what it becomes.
@scottdomes Love the simplicity here. I think a lot has to do with getting out of mind. We all have different ways of using our body's intelligence for decision making and Human Design is the only system I've found that can give us a clue as to what our unique way is.
@scottdomes Yes. I think to develop one's feminine qualities/emotional awareness along with masculine qualities in older generations was a very rare feat. Generally, few teachings and they didn't need to.
@datingbyblaine I think nitpicking, or focusing on all the things we DON'T want, is a sign we don't really know what we DO want. And perhaps he needs to date to find out what he wants, instead of dating to find an intellectual ideal.
@musestoomuch It's a two-way street. This only bothers us when we create expectations and/or haven't been able to discern between a person's words/actions and their intentions. If we enter it intending to witness and learn, our growth can be fulfilling in and of itself.
@Prolotario1 The most resilient education is learning about your unique gifts, following your fascinations, and learning how to increase emotional/energetic attunement through mindfulness, somatic, and relational practices.
@david_perell There is no one perspective that can encompass the "Truth" or "God" because thoughts only exist in a world of duality. It doesn't mean different perspectives are incompatible. The message is perceived based on the level of consciousness of the receiver.
@BritishHodl Beliefs are connected more to energy than any physical representation of it. More expansive beliefs, more wealth, but that can come in the various forms of capital.
@datingbyblaine LOL. I'm the person that eventually asks for birth information but not necessarily on the first meeting unless it's very natural. Astro compatibility is very real but not a reason to make decisions, so I would filter out anyone making a decision based solely on that.
@divya_venn This is the key to transforming one's dating life. Can you acknowledge your feelings, stories, and desires moment by moment and voice them? They may change quickly on the first few dates. Others push back. Eventually we attract people on a more similar wavelength.
@datingbyblaine Seems obvious to assume he's not filtering correctly out of desperation and/or lack of self-awareness, wasting time/energy, and becoming resentful. It's not about just becoming "positive".
If you think a certain $$ amount will make you "complete" read this.
This last year
-Bought a $600k+ car in cash when I was bored on a weekend
-Took a few vacations, private the entire way, about $150k-$200k each
-Moved into a 14 million $$ giant penthouse
I have driven the car like 3 times. I found the vacations barely tolerable after a few days. I like my house but I truly feel no big difference from it.
Why I share this with you. The above is near the pinnacle of how you can live $$ wise.
YET I STILL literally am only really happy when I am
-Building stuff
-Lifting/doing combat sports
-Eating right
-Progressing in hobbies (like guitar)
-In a good place with my wife
-Playing a good video game (If I'm being a piece of shit..I try not to do this..it ruins your head)
And following a routine that lets me do those things.
In short EVERYTHING I ever needed to be happy I had access to at the entry level of my career.
And there has been virtually nothing I can buy to increase it or have an elevated life experience.
It's not that I am some simple guy who like the little things in life.
It's truly just that WE (you and I) have no where to "escape" or "get to" to in life that will make you finally "good".
There is no destination where your "perma happy" and everything is good.
If anything the best that destination will ever be is doing a similar routine/list to mine above on PERHAPS a bigger scale.
AKA building bigger stuff, excelling at your hobbies/things you enjoy more.
Simply put : The things you need to be good are likely already fully available to you.
One of them likely being working on something your excited about.
SO what you should REALLY focus on is not where the "work" is taking or WILL take you, since the only goal is to keep being able to work...
AND MORE so focus on max enjoying your basic things and maximizing them.
MOST people spend their life NOT enjoying/sacrificing thinking they will escape pain and boredom at a certain destination AND OR that becoming turbo wealthy will give them this.
The truth is once base needs are covered you can't get happier or more fulfilled. Your capped.
You can get small boost and highs. But more or less your capped and the things you already like doing are already the things you need to be happy.
This is not me saying "don't get rich or spend money".
Its just me saying you might as well enjoy where you are right now because its pretty much as good as it ever gets if your achieving your simple list like mine above.
The point of the work towards a goal is the work. You can't work your way to happiness. Your life experience is already LIKELY near maxed if your doing the basics of healthy living and mental well being.
@SSjCosmoCrypto@ZssBecker This is conflating external "material freedom" with the internal feeling of freedom. When one can do "anything whenever" they will definitely NOT feel free if they haven't done the internal work. There are always limitations. But you can FEEL free right now.
@SouldierMike@ZssBecker Unfortunately many people that worry about money have the means (time and resources) to train their mind to NOT worry about money. Worrying is a mental habit that remains (and finds the next thing to worry about) until we address it at a core level.