If your wife leaves her home without your permission for 24 hours; you did not beat her, neither did you chase her away.
Please do not bother calling her.
Call your people & tell them that they should prepare to escort you to ask for a return of her bride price.
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@namraataP@KRACorporate@KRACare Have you tried logging in with your changed password even though KRA hasn't acknowledge the change?
That's what I did and realised the new password is working without receiving any confirmation from them.
If you marry a good wife, your life will be better with her.
If you marry a bad wife, your life will be better without her.
You can only know that you married a good wife by how she treats you and the children.
Not by how she treats the children alone.
End.
As a father, if you see indomie, egg, fried rice and chicken as luxury food.
Please know that your daughter fit do olosho ooo.
Because dem go use am fuck her wotowoto.
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My followers,
Good morning.
Wake up!
Success is not built in a day.
It is built in ordinary mornings like this one.
While others complain about the economy,
Disciplined people are:
• Creating value
• Solving problems
• Positioning themselves for opportunity
Focus.
Most women who get married because of money, will become the providers in the long run.
If you don't sit down to analyze and research the legitimate job or career that your fiancé is doing, you'll mostly likely regret getting married to him.
Stop banking on false hopes & short term gains.
A man is supposed to be your provider in marriage.
Look at what he's doing for a living.
Don't be deceived by the little money that he's flashing on your face.
Sustainable and consistent income is better than sudden income.
Look for a legitimate hardworking young man to date and stay committed to him and hope for the best.
Make sure that the age gap is not more than 5 years.
10 years is a stretch.
Men love marriage and they need marriage as much as you do.
And most men love to marry early enough.
If you see the ones that are above 35 and still single, please do not get carried away.
Vet them very well and know what you're going into.
Even if they're rich, still vet them and ask the right questions and not allow the money to blindside you.
You're not the first woman that has dated them.
And since women love money, why do you think those ones that he dated did not get married to him.
Or you think that you have a special breed toto abi?
Your eye go clear.
End.
Dear married men who are fathers,
Do you sometimes just feel like giving up & running away by abandoning your family because you're stressed, unmotivated to keep pushing & tired of life in general?
If so, what do you use as a coping mechanism & how do you snap out of it?
End.
As for me, Messi is the greatest footballer that has ever existed on earth.
Dead or alive.
Pelle or Maradona do not come close.
And we may never see another Messi in a century.
End.
Another comes here to tell us,
"Africa is our business,"
But when an important African business was happening on African soil, he was in Europe, eating lasagna like Khlestakov, the deceitful character in the play The Government Inspector by Nikolai Gogol.
Liars!
The Governor who is collecting millions from Gatundu at night, and during the day he is on X promising us "change" should stop the hypocrisy.
Our anger against this rogue government is being monetized by liars for their selfish gains.
That money is our Yurobond.
Shame on you.
Let me say something.
And this is for young girls.
It's not easy to remain a virgin or stay celibate if you're not a virgin.
Because men will always chase you for sex.
And men know this.
Hence, they do not mind marrying a non-virgin woman.
However, there is one major advantage you may have if you're able to keep your virginity for your husband alone.
Because he knows your sexual history, you may not be silently judged by him in a negative way, if getting pregnant for your first child becomes prolonged in your marriage.
He would be very patient and understanding, and he may even agree that both of you should first try adoption pending when God blesses your womb.
Or he would be willing to spend heavily to make sure that both of you succeed in bringing forth a child or children.
And he won't regret it if all his monies spent didn't yield any positive result.
So, please be careful with your sexual life and avoid doing dangerous abortions that may have a lasting negative impact on your fertility health.
I know that many of you enjoy sex without condoms. But the risks of contracting damaging STDs are there.
Enjoy your preeq but protect your womb.
Improve on your personal hygiene too.
It's not easy for couples who are still TTC. If it happens that the problem is yours and your husband didn't meet you as a virgin, he may be low-key questioning your sexual history and getting frustrated as the wait stretches.
For men,
Infertility isn't only a women problem.
These days, young men are experiencing low sperm counts due to unhealthy lifestyles.
Please ensure that you go get tested before you marry a wife.
So that you don't frustrate your wife.
Because most of the time, the society always assumes that the problem is from the woman.
End.
Some of you women just keep disappointing me.
I'll connect you to men, & within 24hrs, you'd find a way to be discussing issues that have to do with money.
If your phone is bad and you want to change it, change it & stop telling the men.
It's not a useful information.
End.
What you should know about Outlier and its effect if you’re based in the UK. This has been over simplified, and is not finacial advice, do your own research. You have a personal tax allowance of £12,570 from HMRC to reduce your expected taxes each tax year. This allowance is applied to your primary job and based on your salary band determines your tax code which tells how much tax you’ll need to pay. Extra income like outlier could change your tax code.
That 50/50 you’re sharing from outlier still places the burden of tax on you, if your tax code goes up, you pay more tax and your take home pay will reduce. If you’re sponsored, your employer will be notified of this tax code change and that’s how your employer would know you’re working an extra job.
It’s like how people complain about how extra shifts feel like extra sharp money until HMRC waits for you in front to collect their major share.
You may outsource the outlier work to people who have the time to help you with it if you’d like, (Outlier it self is not illegal, it’s freelance work and you’re expected to file your self-assessment to HMRC), you however need to understand the finacial and immigration implications it could have on you based on your type of work and visa. Check your visa terms on work restrictions you may have.
I have had many people, even friends try to pressure-bomb me into entering into such arrangements, and I have declined because for me, it’s an unnecessary complication I can’t be bothered with. Do not allow yourself be pressured or guilt-tripped into hastily getting into it, take a pause and review your legal standing to first understand if you can afford the extra complications associated with it.
When you're angry with your wife, and you raise your voice at her, what is she most likely to do?
She would grab any of your children and starts to shed tears or acting up.
Then your children will start to see you as a wicked daddy.
That's how it starts.
But I believe this is nature playing out in marriage.
Just because you don't want to be seen as a "wicked" father or husband, doesn't mean that you should not act when it's appropriate to do so.
You're the head of the home.
And for women, it should always be a "carrot and stick" approach.
Otherwise, anything you allow, will become the norm.
So there you have it.
Until you're mature, your mother will forever be a saint.
End.
Bryan Johnson revealed what you MUST do to get the best sleep possible
''Reading a book for 10 minutes before bed is as powerful as sleep medication, on some metrics it's even more powerful than sleep meds''
''Have your final meal of the day 4 hours before bed, it gives your body time to digest, and when your body has that distance it will lower its body temperature, your blood glucose will be down, melatonin is produced and it gets the body in a more relaxed state''
''You need like an hour wind down routine, if your bedtime is 10 PM, when 9 PM comes turn off all the screens and spend that hour doing things that relax you, read a book, breath work, meditation, hang out with a friend, anything but be on your screen''
Imagine if he had invested that N300k plus other monies he had been giving to her at just 24. By the time he gets to 30, with careful financial planning and discipline, he would be prepared to be a husband and father.
Let me repeat:
Your girlfriend is supposed to invest in you and make sacrifices for you, while you invest and sacrifice for the future of both of you.
But lack of patience and foresight and the love for toto is taking a huge toll on you young men.
And greed has taken a toll on you young girls.
A young man who is just starting life deserves to be in a relationship. It's how he would find his future wife and the mother of his future children.
It's not a period for him to waste scarce resources.
It's a period of vetting, cohabiting, helping each other, and living a prudent or frugal life..
Then he starts to build his life brick by brick while you, the girlfriend, support him, while he also leads you towards the right path and in line with your future goals and aspirations.
Stop all these transactional relationships you people are doing..
They're unhealthy, and they create unnecessary entitlement, lack of focus and misplaced priorities.
You should have sex if you want.
But sex should not be sold in your relationship.
He would always spend on you, but it should not be seen as a compensation for sex.
How will he spend on you?
1. When you go on dates.
2. When you cohabit with him from time to time.
3. When he wants to get you gifts.
4. Then occasionally dash you money.
Not him paying for your rent.
Not him buying expensive phones, hairs, shoes, bags etc.
Not him paying for your school fees.
And certainly not him buying you sanitary pads or feeding your family.
And all his earnings must be legitimate.
This is what young people in relationships should practice.
Contentment, discipline, and reasonable financial planning and future ambitions.
By the time you keep at it, you'd be building a healthy relationship and setting the proper foundations for your future, and possibly, marriage.
You would have earned your place, and be proud of yourselves.
Make no mistakes; you will definitely make mistakes.
You'll fight, quarrel, and even curse at each other.
It doesn't have to lead to breakups.
As long as no red lines are crossed.
Use each fight, quarrel, or misunderstanding as a teaching moment.
Where you have to apologize, do so.
Where you have to be accountable, do so.
Where you have to be transparent, do so.
This is my gospel for you all, this beautiful wet morning.
End.