He didn't want freedom, he wanted a free pass. He wanted to act single with his boys but still keep your emotional safety net in his back pocket. When you match his choice with absolute absence, he doesn't just lose a partner, he finally finds out exactly how cold the single life is without you.
Just finished watching S8E9 of Chicago Fire-this might be an unpopular opinion, but I think Taylor Kinney (Severide) could have his own spin-off or mini series based in the OFI world🤔 Maybe call it OFI Chicago (or the reverse), Chicago Arson, Chicago Investigates or SOMETHING.
A nurse I used to work with got fired so suddenly it didn’t make sense. She was always the first one on the floor and usually the last one to leave. She picked up extra shifts when people called in sick, trained new hires without being asked, and even brought food for the team during long rotations. Patients would literally ask if she was working because they trusted her that much.
One afternoon she got called into HR. Ten minutes later she walked out with red eyes, holding a small box with her things. Management told everyone she had an “attitude problem.” No warnings. No write-ups. Nothing.
A few weeks later we found out she had reported a senior doctor for making comments about her body and asking personal questions that made her uncomfortable during shifts.
He’s still there. Still respected. Still mentoring younger staff. Still laughing in the hallways like nothing happened.
She lost her income, her routine, and the career she worked years to build. All because she spoke up.
@ma1ybe Some men genuinely care, they just never learned emotional safety or how to express it the right way. Love alone isn’t enough maturity, communication, and emotional intelligence are what make love feel safe and real.
Girl to girl: It should come NATURALLY for a man to want to have fun with you, take you out, feed you, do nice things for you, and compliment you.
You should never have to teach someone to do that
got my nails done and picked this cute olive green color, my nail guy said "that was my wife's favorite, she passed away 7 years ago, last night before sleeping I asked for a sign that she's still here with me so I guess this is it, thank you"....Men in love >>😭