letting her fuck herself with my cock while i sit still and watch her slowly get more and more pathetic. i love making her go dumb because of how deep i am inside of her.
we often get too caught up in the appearance and insecurities of our own bodies we forget to be thankful that it’s functioning and working for us everyday
neurodivergents in their late 20s/30s be like “OMFG bro, I’m so behind!” meanwhile you healed your inner child, stopped people pleasing, let go of needing everyone to understand you, stopped believing every thought in your head, and finally stopped being ashamed of your quirks. bro?? you’re not behind. you’re evolving.
Apparently there’s actual research suggesting BDSM can produce altered states similar to flow state. In one study, bottoming was associated with a state consistent with temporarily reduced executive processing, which honestly makes “subspace” make a lot more sense. Sometimes submission really can feel like finally getting out of your own head.
Last night a girl told me she pays attention to whether the people she dates nurture anything in their lives, like a plant, a pet, a project. It’s useful evidence that someone can sustain care over time. Relationships are also living things that need tending