What’s something about your own Domme/sub dynamic that makes you think, “yeah… THIS is why I do this”?
Just had a short but powerful scene w/ one of my IRL subs, and we finally had a breakthrough.
He’s been VERY bratty and misbehaving lately 🙄but I’ve gotten to know him well enough to see through that. I know his heart. I know he genuinely wants to be a good sub, and I know how much potential he has.
I don’t mean that every Domme should just put up with shitty behavior from subs. I mean that when two people genuinely care about building a certain kind of connection, they take the time to get to know each other, build trust, challenge each other, and put in the work to create the dynamic they actually want.
The work looks different on each side, but when you’re both willing to show up for it, something really special can happen.
I love the healing. The intimacy. The trust. The vulnerability. The worship when it’s real. Getting close to someone, learning them, and watching them grow into more of who they want to be.
I’m a multifaceted Domme, so every dynamic doesn’t look the same. But the subs I become genuinely close with? The ones where we take the time to build something real? Those relationships are everything to me.
And when you both put in the work and something finally clicks…
Anyway, today I’m continuing my aftercare by just being cozy, decompressing, and reflecting.
Grateful for some of the adorable subs who have really touched my heart over time. I hope to have many more of these connections. They are by far my favorite kinds of connections in this space and in life generally. 🥰
Idc I treat my sissy’s like they are my besties, I dress them up, call them a Diva and take their money 🤷🏽♀️
Talk shit about men with them, talk about makeup and clothes, and I just be having fun with them I love sissies !
Embrace your feminine side! Be a baddie !
The answer is Doms are individuals. They should! Get to know them as a human being, have boundaries, clear communication and if there are 🚩& your boundaries are being disrespected then that means they do not care. Trust your body& also pay attention to when you notice green flags.