A lot of men don’t understand that they set the tone in the relationship, and off of THAT women create the environment. Y’all be wanting love, happiness, loyalty, honesty, peace etc., in a space where you don’t even provide that for her lol.
A lot of people really cannot conceptualize poverty. They cannot grasp that people really don’t have enough money and resources to survive, have housing, transportation, food and healthcare..
To them, poor people are misspending their money.. when really they never had it.
this book said “most of us carry into our adult relationships a reluctance to telling the whole truth” bc we learned to lie in our relationships with our parents. you learned that if u tell the whole truth about ur feelings, what u do, etc, you’ll be harmed, belittled or censored