Oh, you found out who I voted for, that's why.... 😂 I forgot people stop fuckin wit you cuz they actually believe Politics=Moral Values. Right lol
Well, Tell your "boyfriend" Politics=Sports Teams. No matter who you root for, you still got work in the morning.
Bcuz Capitalistm
A HARVARD psychologist says: “if you’ve achieved nothing by 25, you’ve avoided the most destructive illusion of youth”
> In 2021, a Harvard psychologist surprised a lecture hall with an unexpected statement:
“If you haven’t accomplished much by 25, you may have escaped one of youth’s biggest illusions.”
At first, the room laughed.
She wasn’t kidding.
> The illusion of early success.
In your early 20s, the brain seeks quick proof of worth ~status, attention, rapid achievements.
But psychologists warn that chasing recognition too soon can lock people into roles or paths they never consciously chose.
They decide too early… and spend years trying to undo it.
> The exploration phase.
Research on career development suggests that people who explore more before 30 often build stronger long-term directions.
Testing ideas.
Making mistakes in public.
Changing course.
At 25 it looks like confusion ….but by 35 it often turns into clarity.
People who feel “behind” in their mid-20s frequently gain something others miss:
Perspective.
Patience.
And a clearer sense of what truly matters to them.
That foundation often leads to better decisions later on.
At the end of the lecture, the psychologist left the students with one final thought:
“You’re not meant to have life fully figured out at 25.”
“You’re meant to discover who you’re not.”
Having parents who didn’t prepare you for literally anything in life, judging you for being “behind” as an adult is definitely a canon event for a lot of neurodivergent people.
I am 32.
I wasted half my twenties to depression, procrastination and lack of motivation.
I was desperately trying to fix my life by making promises to myself and setting goals...
But I kept failing because I didn't understand the fundamentals of self-development.
Here are 8 self-development concepts I wish I knew 5 years ago (so you can fix your life in 6 months)
I'm pretty much a positive, easy going person. If you start the fire, do not pretend you are the victim. There are few on this app that start way too many fires.