One of the many reasons other designers are making more money than you is probably your lack of documentation 😅.
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A client comes to meet you saying, "I want to redesign my website."
You went on the website, made a list of these faults, and then you sent a VN, arrgh!!
Hmm
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God will send HELP to you in human form! You will not be without help in 2024!
2 Chronicles 26:15 "... And his name spread far abroad; for he was marvellously helped, till he was strong."
That is what you have been doing and it is not about your husband’s incessant complaining. Explaining 'the true picture' on every occasion means you justify yourself and only take corrections afterwards. It's like the naughty boy whose teacher asked him to stand up in class who said he's standing up outside but sitting down inside. It means you don't agree to his decisions deep within you, but you are complying to his decisions, and you feel caged. You feel like a slave and one day you are going to spark.
To gain wisdom, check yourself, when your husband complains. Is your husband a nagging complainer or you are often doing things that are not right? Learn to listen to rebuke. Proverbs 9:9 says, “Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be yet wiser: teach a just man, and he will increase in learning.” A wise person will take heed to rebuke. When you don't take heed to rebuke at home, you will commit a terrible blunder outside and it will lead to higher shame. When people that love you are correcting you, you better take it, that is cheap development and advancement for you.
Don't form the habit of always explaining yourself. Cultivate the habit of thinking about what they said you have not done right. Is it really true that you have not done right or are they just picking faults? Adjust yourself to correction. Don't explain. Corrections and rebukes make you better. Psalm 141:5 says “Let the righteous smite me; it shall be a kindness: and let him reprove me; it shall be an excellent oil, which shall not break my head.”
Always change for the better at every rebuke, this attitude is going to help you a lot. Most times, it is the person that loves you, lives with you and sees all the awkward aspects of your life that can speak into your life. Take heed to them. Let it be easy for your spouse to talk to you, to correct you, to say important things to you; be careful that your spouse will not need to sum up courage before he can say something about you that needs improvement. You must come away from that position. Let your husband have the right and authority to correct you and speak to your life because he is in your life to make you better.
@Moses70558312@4RM_435@itsBhengz@sportingking365 peace within your walls and security within your citadels." For the sake of my brothers and friends, I will say, "Peace be within you." For the sake of the house of the LORD our God, I will seek your prosperity. Psalm 122:6. Don't let sentiments make you cross lines. Thanks.
@Moses70558312@4RM_435@itsBhengz@sportingking365 judgment abeg. Just don't get on the wrong side of God. Israel as a nation are God's people whether they are Christians or not, they are Abraham's seeds. God contends those who contend with them. Pray for the peace of Jerusalem: "May those who love you be secure. May there be
@Moses70558312@4RM_435@itsBhengz@sportingking365 Sir, you will get your answers in the Bible. Do well to study. I am sure you would have cursed God too if you came to the world when the old testament was still in use. You think there were no innocent children among the first borns that died in Egypt? God no dey do sitting room
@Fizzy752014@PO_GrassRootM for not giving free food. Why do people feel they must be baby sitted in church? But they don't mind giving in clubs and associations without taking back so that people look up to them as leaders. I know there are bad pastors, but not all are bad. At least mine is not.
@Fizzy752014@PO_GrassRootM The government is also another program of God to cater for the people in general while the church cater for his children (born-again). Why are we blaming the church for what the government didn't do? I think what people need is a change of mindset.
@Fizzy752014@PO_GrassRootM Why must they be the taker in church rather than be the giver. It's just somehow. If I need help (financial or others), I know I can easily walk up to my pastor but the thing is I would rather exhaust all possible means to solve my financial problem than start blaming my pastor
@Fizzy752014@PO_GrassRootM Won't you say I got what I was looking for? The church has nothing to do with the general masses. I will suggest you read your Bible. The church is solely responsible for the welfare of her members and I am not talking about denomination here, I mean the body of Christ.
@Fizzy752014@PO_GrassRootM I guess you met the wrong pastors then... Do you have a GO that sets standards for the members in his church and give goals they must reach before 30 e.g, own a land or a growing savings account to buy a land, save 20% of your income for the next 7 years, have a savings account
@Fizzy752014@PO_GrassRootM that can cater for you for the 6 months incase you loose your job.
The fact you've not met one does not mean there are non. It will be unfair to generalize like that. How would you feel if I called you a jack just because every man I have met are irresponsible.
@ndidirichie@KennyNuga @lovetrisha630 @PO_GrassRootM I don't think so. If you are, you won't wash your father's pants outside. Membership is father and sons unlimited