how to detoxify your life:
butter instead of seed oils
tallow instead of face moisturizer
pineapple instead of skin exfoliant
beef tallow instead of lip balm
organic instead of glyphosate
filtered water instead of tap water
mag hydroxide instead of aluminum deoderant
coconut oil instead of fluoride toothpaste
mineral sunscreen instead of toxic banana garbage
essential oils instead of synthetic perfumes
honey, egg yolks, olive oil instead of shampoo
coconut oil instead of conditioner
baking soda instead of dish soap
vinegar instead of laundry detergent
free balling instead of polyester underwear
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If you're planning to have kids, read this 👇
1. Kids will overwhelm your wife
No mom is ready for the workload of kids. Whether she’s a feminist or not she’ll start acting like one. The kids will be used against you as leverage.
This will be your first test.
2. Sleep deprivation is your primary enemy
New parents make all sorts of mistakes in getting their newborn to sleep properly. They often use fancy new theories that have only existed the last 40 years.
The only way for a good night’s sleep is to follow an ancestral model: newborn sleeps in the same room, bed low enough where mom can easily access and feed the child. Room needs to be blacked out like a cave.
Anything else, you’re in trouble.
3. Crying is a feature not a bug
Crying is communication. Many parents don’t listen to it and it’s borderline abusive.
Some things cries are signaling:
- Temp of the room
- Itchy polyester clothing and sheets
- Mom making milk with intolerances from diet
Cries were always 100% valid in hindsight. I dug deep until I solved them.
4. Bad diet for mom = bad diet for baby
A lot of cries come from digestion issues from mom’s milk. This is because mom is usually eating something she thinks is healthy but is not. Kids are a perfect lab experiment: what works for them is de facto healthy. If you think a food is healthy but your kid is burping and farting and in pain, you need to revisit your assumptions.
Some things to watch out for:
- Whey protein
- Soymeal-fed eggs
- Above ground vegetables
- New world vegetables
5. Fighting will increase… a lot
Most guys don’t have a frame strong enough to handle fights in the start, so get ready for serious fighting once sleep deprived. Both of you will be on edge, it’ll be very difficult to avoid constant fights.
Getting sleep right is a priority, otherwise you’re in for a long battle.
6. Modern child-rearing strategies are DEFUNCT
The “blank slate theory” of child behavior is 100% false.
If you’re trying to engineer your children through punishment/reward/deprivation you are borderline abusive. Your children come with a full suite of instincts and methods of communication. They are NOT a blank slate.
Again, the ancestral tribal child-rearing model is always the best. We’re so out of touch with it, the only guide we have is intuition: listen to your gut, try to figure out what they're communicating, and try to be compassionate.
7. Kids won’t get fat unless they are stressed
Kids intuitively do not eat until they are hungry, and stop eating when they are full. My kids often leave half full bowls of ice-cream around. How? They aren’t stressed so their satiety signal works right.
If your kid is chronically overeating, you are not providing a safe environment and they are stressed.
8. Toss the vegetables
You learn real quick vegetables cause lots of gut issues for kids. But well-meaning parents power through because they think vegetables are healthy. Aside from carrots, my kids never eat vegetables. They are taller and more muscular than any other kid around them, so what did they lose out on? There’s no discernable upside to vegetables. Lots of downsides though.
9. Kids will be used to guilt you
If you don’t understand the instinctual female frame, you’re in trouble. Her instincts will run wild while under stress. If you don't figure out what is going on, you'll become overburdened with taking care of the children.
You must handle guilt with moral authority.
10. Grandparents are pretty useless
This might not apply to you, but grandparents are pretty useless. The boomer generation just doesn’t have the same interest in grandkids as previous generations. They prefer their own conveniences and luxuries.
What most new parents need is grandma to come by and do dishes and laundry. You might get the odd 30 mins to 2 hours of them distracting the kids, otherwise they tend not to get their hands dirty at all.
New parents need genuine time off. It's unnatural to raise kids exclusively without an extended tribe.
11. Your productivity will crater if you lose frame
It takes a strong male frame to navigate the mess of the modern parenting environment. Feminist mothers, absentee grandparents, silly child rearing ideas, dumbass doctors will all overburden you away from your mission of making money.
12. Buy all conveniences
One of the real responsibilities behind “providing” is providing technology and methods to the home territory. This is why you should invest in absolutely everything to make mom’s life easier: robotic vacuums, house cleaners, air-fryers, UberEats, babysitters,
It’s not feminism that makes the modern woman a bad mother: she is genuinely overburdened by the stressful, low stimulus pair territory (living all alone just man and wife and kids). It's unnatural, we are meant for tribal living.
13. Let your kids get strong by climbing
You will learn quickly they have deep instincts for climbing. These instincts subside around 7 years old. Until that time you need to craft your environment so they can safely climb everywhere. They’ll emerge from this period jacked if you do it right. If not, they’ll be dainty.
14. Potty training is just an age problem
If you wait about 3-6 months after you *think* you need to potty train, they have the competence to do it naturally. We just waited until it became easy.
Most parenting mistakes can come down to having a deadline that’s too early, and only a short time later the kid has the competency to do it themselves.
Final thoughts
Having kids can be very easy. The problem is we have unnatural environments (pair territory, no grandparents) and bad ideas (behaviorist theory, burdensome doctor recommendations) that combine to create a living hell.
If you get this wrong, kids will destroy your momentum, destabilize your relationship, reduce your earning potential, and make you put on a ton of weight.
You won’t find a single ancestral tribe that emulates any modern child-rearing strategies. These strategies aren’t lindy. They are completely experimental.
When in doubt, follow the evolutionary design and you’ll make things a LOT easier.
real healthcare:
1. stop poisoning yourself
2. quit porn
3. don't drink tap water
4. spend as much time barefoot outdoors as possible
5. deep sleep
6. 30 mins of sunlight a day
7. exercise, but don't over do it
8. steak, fruit, organs
9. cut out all gut irritating food
10. sat fat > unsat fat
11. calcium rich diet
12. lots of collagen
13. avoid too many EMFs
14. drop sh*tty friends
15. quit your terrible job
16. move somewhere that aligns with your soul
17. learn to de-stress
18. trust your body
19. find a higher purpose, learn to love
20. spend time around cows
doing these things didn't just make me healthier...it completely transformed my entire life
Islamic Character as a Foundation for Marriage
These days, many young Muslims fight over the technical details on what are the rights of the husband or wife. These disputes are heated, emotional and often devoid of any understanding of the Quran and Sunnah. Marriages are reduced to contracts in which rights are exchanged in a formal manner without any positive feelings towards the other. However, Islam does not encourage this kind of attitude towards relationships, whether it is a marital relationship or our relationships with our parents, siblings, children, friends, and neighbours. The focus in Islam is not on law, but on manners and character.
Islam lays down some very clear laws regarding relationships, but also leaves other aspects open to interpretation. For example, the hadith states that women must obey their husbands, but the details of what that entails are often decided by cultural and economic norms. Likewise, the Quran teaches that men must provide for their wives, but what exactly they need to provide and how much they should provide is dictated by cultural and economic norms, as well as individual needs. The laws exist to prevent abuse and to establish the parameters of the Shariah. Within these parameters, there is a lot of room for flexibility.
Islam’s laws related to marriage dictate the bare minimum that is required for a marriage to work. This has never been the standard recommended by the Shariah. That standard is a loving mutually beneficial relationship based on good character and kindness. Meeting the bare minimum does not make a person a righteous Muslim or an ideal spouse. If anything, it indicates laziness and a lack of commitment to the relationship. The true measure of success in a relationship is one’s character and manners with one’s spouse.
The Prophet said, “The best of you are the ones who are best to their families, and I am best to my family.” (Tirmidhi 3895) He also encouraged women to marry men of good character (Tirmidhi 1084) and emphasized in multiple narrations the importance of kindness in a marriage (Muslim 1218, 1468). All of these narrations clearly indicate that marriages are not built on meeting minimum Fiqh standards, marriages are built on kindness, good character, and wanting to please each other.
Our marriages should not be built on meeting minimum Fiqh standards or arguing over the details of the law. We need to clarify these laws so people know their rights and responsibilities, but we should build our marriages on kindness and love. This verse of the Qur’an should be the foundation of how we build our marriages, “And among His signs is this, that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find peace in them, and He has put between you love and mercy.” (Surah al-Rum 30:21)
Love and Mercy as building blocks of a marriage
Our love for our parents and children is natural. Even without any effort, this love is there and remains constant for life. The love between a husband and wife is built and needs to be nurtured. The Islamic way of getting married ensures that a marriage starts on a basis of piety, compatibility, and mutual attraction. The idea is that if a man and a woman are compatible, fear Allah, and are physically attracted to each other, then over time, love will develop between them. This love is not automatic, it is dependent on what we put into the relationship. The more a couple prioritizes working on their relationship, the deeper the bonds of love will grow. It may not be there on day one, but after ten years of marriage, it can grow very deep and powerful. This is a primary goal of an Islamic marriage, to start on a strong foundation and over time to build a beautiful relationship.
This kind of relationship cannot be built on demands and animosity. If someone enters a marriage believing that all members of the opposite gender are evil or corrupt, or refusing to acknowledge the differences between the genders and their marital needs, this will hinder any chances of that relationship working. Husn Dhann (thinking well of the other person) is necessary to begin a relationship on a positive note. So is education about the needs of the opposite gender. In recent times, it has become taboo to talk about the differences between the genders, and especially the needs of men in a relationship, but for Muslims this should not be taboo at all. For a relationship to thrive, both the needs of the husband and wife must be met, and we cannot do this if we are shunning any discussion on male needs and desires. Discussions on these topics are necessary so the next generation enter their marriages educated and informed, instead of trying to build their relationships on misconceptions and liberal myths.
Beyond needs and rights
We need to know our rights. We need to know our responsibilities, and we need to understand the opposite gender and what they desire in a marriage. But more than that, we need to become the best versions of ourselves. When we grow into people who fear Allah, and develop personalities that are kind, loving, and generous, this automatically will make us much better spouses, parents, and members of society. To become the best of society, we must excel in kind treatment of our families. “The best of you are the ones who are best to their families, and I am best to my family.” (Tirmidhi 3895)
We need to revive the science of Adab wal Akhlāq (manners and character). This needs to be taught by parents, Islamic schools, madrassas, and in marriage training programs. When Muslims refine their character, and develop Islamic manners, their chances of having fulfilling marriages increase greatly. A marriage can be the most beautiful and exciting part of life, but it all depends on what we put into the relationship. Refining our manner and character will go a long way to starting a marriage on a strong foundation.
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