If we date, don’t stop being you. Keep having fun, keep seeing your friends, keep chasing your goals, and keep enjoying your life. A relationship should add to your life, not take away from it. Just make sure you save time for us too.
Practice selective access, not everyone deserves access to me. Lean more into my community, we all need a sense of belonging. Feeling my feelings and not suppressing them. Announcing when my peace is disturbed when it happens.. read more books, go outside and rest without guilt
normalize giving up on people. no more seeing the best in them, no more excusing their behavior. accept them as they are and reject them. If they wanted to appreciate you, they would have already.
@just_drmj Keep ya head up, 6. Be encouraged. Trust that everything and everyone you need for your journey is here or headed your way. What you want wants you too.
cutting people off feels different now. it’s not anger, it’s grief. like dang… I really wanted you here, but your actions showed me I’m not safe with you.
Throwing away an entire relationship with someone who genuinely loved and accepted every part of you just to chase empty lustful connections on hookup apps is crazy
disturb me.
update me.
get upset when i do dumb things.
show your jealous side.
yap nonstop.
spam me with photos and texts.
tell me how your day went.
show me your fit.
call/facetime me anytime.
i love the little things.