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@Druida_Sunfire @Sitty_kitty2_0 Chat had been trying to warn him

but he got a signed Bdubs so who cares

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@Bl25238598 @Matthew_S_Gower @impulseSV @hermitcraft_ yeah because making double entendres is exactly like taking advantage of a power imbalance to try to get women involved with you when you already are in a relationship

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@elena_penovska @qrnrdn It starts on Saturday; VH season 3 finished last year I think.

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@dreamy_life1 Irn bru

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@ViberViper @luvethubs yeah, where's GIGS in this

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@TheNoxite @p1ckle03 yep having a certain Mr Hutt there... very tempting.

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@Ranboosaysstuff It makes no difference. I saw this after the day and I wouldn't have known there was one.

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@punzochillin Now

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@CapnRedbeard11 @salemstarz_ Noooo - you leave the teabag steeping until the end to wring as much flavour out as possible, that's the British way.
That person's way is cold and watery.

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@IAmCrystalPalm @B3L0V3DZ And since i've been blocked for saying that, I think its pretty disgusting to try to force people to act how you decide they should act. That you are expecting them to be performative.

Ironic to complain of someone blocking others and then block those who disagree with you

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@IAmCrystalPalm @B3L0V3DZ Agree 100%.

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@decapicate I'm sorry not sorry we beat you 🐧🐧🐧

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@_Nebular111 good luck neb - you won't know me but we were in chats together. All the best for the future and i'm so sorry you were left feeling like this

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@Nozomi67318045 @astraimpact But therein is part of the problem; the classification that 'this' is for children and 'that' for adults.
As an adult i navigate carefully in spacies where minors are; i tend not to get as involved with fans in fandoms where there are a lot of minors or i find more adult spaces

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@Xmc_babi @M0on_loverss Never people enjoy the buzz of gossip and drama too much

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@triinnzzz she could be telling the truth now, but she has form for not being honest to get at him. No proof, I just watched and remembered
everyone makes their own decisions about what to believe/what not to believe I just find it difficult believe someone who lied before about their ex

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@triinnzzz the problem with the person making those allegations was that she'd made up stuff about him before
How do I know? while they were dating there was some drama around her. She made some claims later about what he said/did which weren't true as I'd seen his response at the time

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@starlightkarll I think he explained it. I was uncomfortable because it felt like what she said was about revenge - which she'd tried before, but you can never be sure.
it seems like two people failing to communicate well. It feels very human. It feels like there's no victim/abuser here

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@UrFavCatboy69 reading it all i don't think he's a bad person either. I think he's like many of us, a human person just trying to do the best he can.

I don't think Andi is a good or bad person, she's just a human person trying to do the best she can

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@themindofjojo Not my first time - but what a trial of fire you've had

What i did learn from earlier fandoms is no-one is ever perfect. We have to understand they are human and will make mistakes. If you expect them to be perfect, you'll always be disappointed...