You clearly don’t know anything about the caliber of students who make it into university of Ibadan, that’s why you’re surprised 40% of a class can graduate with a first class.
You will be sitting in a random lecture theatre only to find out you’re sitting next to the guy with the highest jamb score. Your roommate is the girl who had the best WAEC result in South West.
You really don’t know what it takes to gain admission into the university of Ibadan.
The average Law, Medical or Engineering student in UI is one of the best students in Nigeria.
People be hating on Mathematics meanwhile English was there; Summary, Lexis and structure, Comprehension, Adverbial and adjectival Clause and phrase!!!!!!!!
English was the real villain
“Once You’re Married, You’ll Understand”
This statement is one of the most annoying phrases I’ve heard in my entire life, not necessarily because of the words themselves, but because of how they’re used.
Yes, it’s true that there are certain things one can only fully grasp through the experience of marriage, no argument about that. But the problem arises when some of you married folks want to force every discussion, every opinion, and every issue into a marital framework. You want to shove everything into one box labeled “marriage.”
We could be talking about something that’s just common sense, and you people will still respond, “You won’t understand until you’re married.” Ṣe awa single wa daran ni, abi ka ma s’ọrọ mọn to ri pe a single?
Telling a newly wedded woman that she must serve her husband, obey him, and respect him because her husband could decide not to marry at all and still get everything he want then they go on listing things like sex, children isn’t right. And if you say it’s right, can’t women get those things too without marriage? And when we said that’s not an appropriate thing to say, you people keep saying we wouldn’t understand because we’re not married while in reality that has absolutely nothing to do with marriage. It’s just flawed logic.
In fact, when you really think about it, the respect and peace of mind men often demand from women in marriage aren’t even a fair trade compared to what men provide, a husband give shelter, food, clothing, protection, and more and you’re saying all he should get in return is respect and peace of mind? C’mon fam.
And come to think of it, why should respect and peace of mind be something you have to ask for from your legally married partner? These should come naturally. They should be the default in any healthy relationship/marriage it shouldn’t even be gender base.
As Imam Kolapo beautifully said, “Marriage is a service.” Whether you’re the husband or the wife, you must be ready to serve your partner sincerely and wholeheartedly.
If you list the supposed “marital benefits” men can get outside of marriage, you’ll realize women can get them too, sometimes even more easier for women in today’s world where we have millions of rich men that are ready to use any amount to do zinah.
Ti e ba se anu ọlọhun ati ifẹ, do you think women don’t have options too? Better options walai.
At the end of the day, your wife is a human being, not a servant, not a trophy, not a burden. Treat her as one.
And let’s be clear: marriage in Islam is not a form of oppression for women. It is a bond built on mercy, compassion, and mutual service. It’s a partnership where both husband and wife uplift each other emotionally, and morally.
We Muslims must start representing Islamic marriage the way the Prophet ﷺ taught us, with kindness, justice, and balance, so that non-Muslims will not look at our women and think they are enslaved or silenced in their homes.
Islam gave women honour, protection, and dignity long before the world even spoke of “women’s rights.” If we fail to show that in our conduct, then we’re misrepresenting the beauty of our own faith.
Remember, Allah called men qawwamun, protectors and maintainers not oppressors.
Men don’t understand how much safety they lose when they get defensive the moment a woman brings up how she feels.
It doesn’t make her feel heard.
It doesn’t solve anything.
You’re just telling her that your comfort matters more than her pain.
disappointment is weird because yes i want to forgive you, wholeheartedly so but my mind is struggling to comprehend why would you ever think it was ok to do me like that
This sums up the mindset of the 'African progressive man.' He still wants patriarchy (read servitude) but won't demand it directly. To him, ideally, she will do the performance of it & then praise him for not demanding it from her. So, he gets to feel like he's a better man.
As irrelevant as some of the tweets about labour and pregnancy may seem on the timeline, I feel compelled to add my two cents tho nobody send me
Here’s the truth: no man who has ever stepped foot into a labour room with his partner would dare to say half the nonsense some of you are tweeting. But let’s set the record straight.
If you’re even a little curious or smart, you could do a quick Google search for the most painful experiences a human can go through. Childbirth consistently ranks in the top five. Yet some of you minimize it, ridicule the process, and try to score cheap points by calling it “painless.”
Is childbirth a death sentence? No. But can someone walk into that room and not come out? Absolutely. Mothers die. Babies die. Complications happen all the time. And for many women, the trauma lingers long after the delivery.
So if you don’t understand it, respect it. And if you can’t respect it, at the very least, stay quiet
This is one of the most important truths almost no one talks about.
There is a threshold of wealth beyond which u stop interacting with reality as it exists and begin interacting with a version of it that bends to your whims.
Timeless Retro Number Eight-Shaped Dangle Earrings; Hourglass-themed Crochet Beaded Jewelry; Special Handmade Gifts for Her https://t.co/ccI5OhD00q via @Etsy