@hi_its_annaleah I am not sure I like that. No actually. I hate it. I get the message, we are not defined by what happens to us but when traumatised I have acted pretty bad, I like to think that doesnโt define me either.
@Davidsedthisx I had a trip away with this person. I have never felt so uncomfortable. They were so horrible after I declined to partake. I had to leave where we were staying a day early to avoid them and their outbursts. It is scary how you think you know someone.
TW ----- (SA and Fetish)
I get people having fetishes. But its pretty clear to me not to ask someone who is a victim of rape to act out a rape fantasy where they are the victim or want to pretend to take pictures of them pretending to be unconscious.
@Davidsedthisx Yeah I am not too phased. I can afford to lose a dangerous person, they are definitely not a friend to me after their treatment of me. I have better people in my life who are not making me worry about my safety by being around them.
The oddest thing to me is when men with rape fetish try to defend rape kink by claiming that some women developed a coping mechanism as a result of being raped so, they believe that gives them the right to exploit women's mental issues to live out their perversive fantasies+