I read novels for entertainment. I’m not trying to memorise anything, and once I put the book down, most of the details fade away.😅
Ask me what happened a day later, and there’s a good chance I won’t remember. But while I’m reading it, I’m completely immersed; that enjoyment is what matters to me.
I will never ever be a cool girlfriend! Uma kukhona engingakuzwa kahle, uzongchazela kuze kuse. We’re not moving on from the topic until it makes sense to me😭😭😭
Nothing is sexier than a man who knows what he wants and chooses you loudly. Morning calls. Good night messages. Quick replies. No mind games. No leaving you guessing. He gives time, attention and real effort. He makes you feel safe, valued, and noticed. And when he's committed, he's all in, on you and you alone.
When you truly love someone, you have to learn the art of waiting. Love is not about rushing, demanding or forcing things to fall into place. Sometimes the person you love needs time to heal, to grow or to simply find their way back to themselves. And if your love is real, you'll give them that space without making them feel guilty for it. Waiting doesn't mean putting your life on hold, it means keeping faith in a bond that is strong enough to survive distance, silence and time. The love that is meant for you will never be lost, it will return when both hearts are ready.
i think stressing over a man is pointless. the choices they make are completely out of your control & their behavior has nothing to do with you. all you can do is pray that God allows the right partner into your life & drag anyone who doesn't care for you properly out.
And if you’re finding it hard to celebrate Father’s Day today because your dad isn’t with you anymore, I hope his presence still shows up in your memories, in the little things that remind you of him, in the stories you can still tell without it hurting too much.
I hope you spend today not treating grief like an enemy, but understanding that your grief is evidence that you loved your dad so deeply and he loved you just as much. I hope you see it for what it really is—love with nowhere to go. And I hope, in your own way, you’re able to channel that love into something nice for yourself today, or into honoring his memory. Sending you so much love.❤️