Men don't want abortion.
Men don't want condoms.
Men don't want vasectomies.
Men don't want child support.
What they want is sex without responsibility... and women to bear every consequence.
Say it louder.
I lost it when the grandma from Encanto was forgiven like nothing happened after having created generational trauma for every single one of his children and grandchildren and DISOWNING HER SON for being different just to then hug him like he hadn't been living ISOLATED AND LIKE A RAT HIS WHOLE LIFE because of her.
No, everything is not magically okay with a hug. BAD thing to teach kids.
Every woman in the comments is celebrating her life, while a lot of the men are trying to convince her she should feel ashamed. That says more about their fears than hers.
Bear was awful from the start.
People say Bear only became the villain after the wish, but I disagree.
When his cat dies, his immediate reaction isn’t guilt or accountability, it’s confusion over how the cat got the pills, even though that could only have happened because of his own negligence. Later, when he wants to buy Nikki a gift, he quickly gives up on finding something she’d genuinely appreciate and instead walks away with the One Wish Willow.
Then there’s the wish itself. He doesn’t wish for Nikki to choose him or for their relationship to grow naturally. He wishes for her to love him more than anyone else in the world, which means her own wants and feelings no longer matter. Even if he believed it was just a harmless novelty, the fact that this was his deepest desire says a lot about how he viewed Nikki long before the curse ever took hold. That’s what makes it so disturbing.
#obsession