I don’t go by societies standards. I do what works for me and sometimes that’s the total opposite of what’s “accepted” lucky enough for me idgaf about what’s accepted and not. 🤷🏽♀️ and my life is very peaceful this way
normalize saying “unfortunately you’re no longer a safe person for me and I refuse to continually sacrifice my nervous system to make you feel comfortable”
God has always been there for me. I appreciated him in my best days , but the way he carried me in my dark days, I will never forget and will always be grateful.
Gonna start telling more people “no I don’t accept your apology and frankly do not believe you will ever change.”
Because stop fucking playing with me.
Whenever I catch myself not reading things completely, I remember anti-intellectualism is on the rise, literacy is in decline, and I don’t want to be a VICTIM!
Don’t worry about defending your reputation because who you are will always outlast Gossip. defamation. Misunderstandings. Distorted perception. He said she said. Etc Literally let people be wrong about you.
You gotta PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN IN YOUR LIFE ! Block numbers, stay away from fake love,grind,get your spirit & mind right…Stay focused! You gotta demand positivity, claim it, speak it, see it everyday Im growing & trying 2become a better version of myself & I won’t dare let up 💪🏽🤍
you must create because the thing you’d make doesn’t exist anywhere else. nobody has your exact combination of experiences and wounds and obsessions, which means the work only you could make is genuinely irreplaceable. if you don’t make it, it simply never exists. the world just goes without it, never knowing what it missed. that’s the most exciting thing about being you. the thing is waiting and you’re the only door it has.
When you decenter your life from the idea of being in a relationship and focus on elevating yourself, you realize how many goals, opportunities, and accomplishments are waiting for your attention. Your fulfillment in life becomes rooted in your growth, your purpose, and the person you’re capable of becoming.
I love being there for my friends and family but I’m never sad or upset when they don’t tell me about their relationships. I could live my whole life not hearing about another mf relationship problems I got tooooo much going on to be overly invested in someone else’s love life..
I’m not the type to tolerate people because I don’t have to. I stand on my own, treat people right, and expect the same. Nobody is so important that they can come into my life and act like I need them. Good energy and character stay, the rest always finds its way out.