Tomorrow, the same people will flood here complaining that waiters ignore them whenever they go on dates with men. You enable patriarchy today and cry about its consequences tomorrow. Peak fooling.
UK married men are never beating the allegations… Àfiṣe ni..
After work, there’s this colleague who usually drops me off at the bus station.
One day, we’re having a normal conversation when he suddenly asks:
“Are you single”
Me: “Why are you asking?”
Him: “I wanted to be sure somebody’s wife is not entering my eye.”
Me: “How? Aren’t you married?”
Him: “Technically yes, but my wife and I are just living like flatmates... We have an agreement.. See Ife, Men really want peace”
Me: 🙄
Him: “You won’t understand. I’m going through a lot in my marriage.”
Me: “Eiyah, you must be going through a lot truly..
Him: I really like you since you joined us, I want to be taking care of you
Me: “no problem, but why not divorce your flatmates first? send her and the kids back to Nigeria, then we can be together”?
Him: “erm, we can talk about that later but it hasn't gotten to that I ife”
Me: Ohh
Him: Anyways, forget about my wife, let's focus on us
Me: “Okay, When you divorce, let me know. Then we can talk about us.”
“Let me be taking care of you” On top of his £1,580 after tax 🤦🏽♀️
Maybe the wife is there doing 50/50 like that..
smh
People don’t choose between “someone who loves me” and “someone who doesn’t.” They choose between people they’re attracted to and people they’re not. Men and women both do this.
That's the difference between men of old and the modern man
When most of you were birthed, your father's weren't even present, they were busy working. Because that's the most important thing a father can do for his wife and child - to work
What's the point of a man being present at the birth of a child? Standing outside the maternity ward just pacing around like a mad man. Or let's say you even get inside, what can you possibly do besides hold her hand, saying "push" as if the nurses can't do that
This is the World Cup, it's your country at war with other nations. You're no different from a soldier on the frontlines saying I need to be excused so I can go see my wife giving birth
This is the current state of modern men, just emotional decisions, to appear good to a female biased society OVER their duty.
@MasalaBai By that logic, where are all the 50-year-old career influencers making “day in my life” videos? Social media naturally skews young. That’s not evidence for or against a lifestyle.
@6munzz The irony is that saying ‘I need to benefit financially from marriage’ is the same transactional mindset you’re criticizing in the first place.
There is still no coherent vision for why he is being replaced and what the alternative will do differently. There is no clear policy difference on offer because the left is intellectually bankrupt.
@Walkinthemedow@haniimhome So he wants to force people to put their ids on their social media accounts practically ending free speech online and he’s against legalising the most medicinal beneficial drug ? Thank you now I’m even more sure that he has to go