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the man who can fast for 24 hours, sit in silence for an hour and walk into a room full of strangers and hold his own is a man who has done the work on himself. go be that.
1) Since men are logically inclined, it means when they don't talk often, they tend to critically observe and have more internal dialogue
2) This gives them a gesture of "innocence" when relating with people around them, making these people drop their guard
3) And when people drop their guard, they tend to be authentic and natural in their behaviours. Their flaws become more visible, their insecurities become more pronounced. Their vulnerabilities show.
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It now depends on the attitude and personal values of the quiet men.
Some of them slowly use these information they've gotten, to turn into manipulators that you will never have assumed they'd be.
While some know all these information, and will use it to make better quality of life, including in their friendships, relationships, family, etc
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That's why if you check, loud people in general, are rarely manipulators.
They set their boundaries very clear from the onset and you'd always know where they stand.
But the quiet people are majorly the ones that have imagined all the possible scenerios before it even happens, and will put themselves first in many of them.
And because you've given them the benefit of doubt, by assuming they are too innocent to act in some ways.... You'll keep tolerating them and you won't see what they are doing as manipulative. You'll always give an excuse on their behalf.
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Note that not all quiet men are like this.
But the biggest manipulators you'll meet in the midst of men, are mostly the ones that seem very innocent.
They know how to recognise patterns. They understand pattern formation and know exactly how to cover their tracks to always keep you at bay. Giving you small bread crumbs, just enough for you to keep giving them the benefit of doubt.
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So men who don't talk too much, can either be the best people you've ever met, or the biggest manipulators you'll meet.
It's always one of the extremes. No middle.
Either they'll be very thoughtful and genuine
Or they'd be extremely manipulative so much that it takes another person to spot it and fill you in on what's happening
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