i accepted the way you treated me because it was you. I tried to understand your situation, your struggles and your reasons. I wanted to be there for you, to be patient, to be someone you could rely on. I held on through all the pain, the uncertainty and the moments when I felt invisible. now I find myself wondering. did you ever stop to think about how I felt? did you ever care about the weight of your actions on my heart? or was I always just someone who understood, who endured, who stayed, while you never had to question whether I would?
Stop abandoning yourself to keep someone else.
The biggest shift happens when you no longer shrink your needs, ignore your feelings, or accept less just to avoid losing someone. The moment you choose yourself, you naturally attract relationships that honor your worth.
just APOLOGIZE to your partner when you know you messed up bruh… all that manipulative behavior and getting mad at them for being upset when they have a valid reason is just weird. people love to say they’re grown until it’s time to take accountability.
I hope I marry a man who's Thoughtful. I don't want flowers on valentine's day because that's what you're "supposed to do". I want flowers on a random Tuesday bcz you thought of me on your way home.