Once i mentally separate myself from a situation you'll never get the same me. I'm somebody you gotta do right by the first time because my mental detachment doesn't allow reconnection. Especially because at my age its hard to make sense out of another grown person trying to play
I want to write a Substack about this because someone asked me something similar on IG… but you don’t have to ask for certain things when you already show up as your standard.
As harsh as this is..it’s right. Trauma bonding with anyone comes from a place of lack. If you’re struggling it’s bc your life isn’t full enough. Go out, start a business, build on a hobby. Anything. A lot of ppl aren’t even heartbroken, they’re just understimulated.
When I first heard this song I bursted into tears because nobody has perfectly encapsulated unrequited love and the grief that comes with it. You can clearly tell this is a song from the heart. You have to have loved so deeply and lost it all in order to write a song like this
Nepotize me lord. You’re my father. Let them know. Put me in places they think I don’t deserve and let them know “my child gets anything and everything she desires”
I will say, I’m not a fan of low maintenance friendships & have accepted that. Lmao, I definitely prefer friends that want to include you in the everyday mundane things like running errands, working out, catching up on work, grabbing dinner together, etc.
my mom once told me "accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others" and that shit is real.