The Secret Singleton

& read my ebook “I Had a date last night” Married,divorced, single mum, reality blogger, 25 years of dating stories.

[The Secret Singleton @IHADLN]

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[The Secret Singleton @IHADLN]

I’ve been ghosted!! Do I care? No! Its par for the course. His loss! I didn’t have a good vibe, esp when he wouldn’t give an address! #life #dating #silversurfer

[The Secret Singleton @IHADLN]

So we were chatting over text and he signs off see you tomorrow! Err we haven’t made plans to get together! Obvs hes speaking to someone else! #dating #SecondLockdown #silversurfer

[The Secret Singleton @IHADLN]

I wanted to send some chocs to guy I’m dating as he is having a procedure. I asked him for his address. He said it was a bit early in the relationship to be swopping addresses! Why do I meet these idiots?! #dating #lockdown2uk

[The Secret Singleton @IHADLN]

Good luck everyone with the dating, stay safe over the next month. #COVID19 #november #healthy

[The Secret Singleton @IHADLN]

Oh gawd he was so bloody boring, couldn’t crack a smile when I made a joke. Hard work and so serious. I think i’m at the end of the road with all this dating! Not for me and doing my head in! #dating #silversurfer

[The Secret Singleton @IHADLN]

Gordon frm the Chilterns phones me 1/2 a day for a chat. We click, he makes me laugh. How are we going to date through lockdown? Suggestions please. #Lockdown 2 #datinglockdown #dates#match

[The Secret Singleton @IHADLN]

Seeing a guy tonight who I don’t fancy and can’t see us having a relationship. I’ve friend zoned him but not sure he realises! Do I say?

[The Secret Singleton @IHADLN]

Guy asked a mutual friend for my number. We spoke last night and arranged to meet up but he spends every weekend with his ex wife and daughter as they live far away. If he didn’t make the effort he wouldn’t see her. He’s been divorced 5 years. Not sure this is going to work.

[The Secret Singleton @IHADLN]

Wow isn’t it nice when a guy surprises you with flowers. Romance isn’t dead! Don’t think my daughter’s boyfriend is too happy! Maybe he needs to up his game 😂@windowbxcontest

[The Secret Singleton @IHADLN]

A friend in her 60’s finished with her bf of 6 years because he wouldn’t commit . Now she regrets it and he’s moved on. Was she right? #dating #datingdecisions #boyfriend

[The Secret Singleton @IHADLN]

Tonight I bumped into my girlfriend and her new boyfriend. He was good looking, the right age, and chatty. What more does a girl need? I pray I meet the same and stop finding these other jerks! #dating #silversurfer

[The Secret Singleton @IHADLN]

One of my daughter’s clients wanted to buy her Lou boutons as its her birthday coming up. She’s blond, blue eyed, size six. Every woman needs a pair he pleaded as she politely refused. Do you think he’d buy me a pair 😂

[The Secret Singleton @IHADLN]

I’m a chicken!! Didn’t want to tell the guy I’d seen a few times that I don’t fancy him. Can we still go for dog walks together? He is a decent guy but there is no chemistry. I have to stick to my core values which aren’t his. Next please #dating #single

[The Secret Singleton @IHADLN]

So sad watching sex on the beach, the young men from Gambia looking for wealthy women. Why can’t women be happy on their own? #sexonthebeach #gambia

[The Secret Singleton @IHADLN]

How do I tell a guy there’s no chemistry from my side? He’s in denial about his weight. Not fat, obese! #next #notboyfriendmaterial #dating #silversurfer

[The Secret Singleton @IHADLN]

Man contacted me sounded nice, gave him my mobile no, started chatting. I googled him & photos he had put up on site of himself were years old! I asked him if they were recent & he said within a couple of years. Nooo! Wd you still meet up? #vain #honesty

[The Secret Singleton @IHADLN]

Conversation with gf. Her bf overweight, has big health issues, doesn’t chat on phone just via text & daughter is moving back in with him. Er doesn’t sound too great! She is tiny, no kids at home, motivated, switched on and a great laugh. Nota match made in heaven!

[The Secret Singleton @IHADLN]

@MartinSLewis Omg I laughed sooo much, binged watched the whole thing. Enjoy

[The Secret Singleton @IHADLN]

I met this guy online who lives near me, we went out a couple of times but I can’t go there. He is grossly overweight, we are not on the same page. I enjoy our weekly dog walk. This weekend, a dog walk and pub lunch. What do I say? Can I keep it on friendly terms?