Question.
You wanted to buy a car.
The car is 2m.
You had 1.5m.
You asked your for 500k so you can be able to buy the car.
You paid her back later.
If your wife claims that both of you bought the car, will she be justified to say such?
Yes or No, state your reasons 👇.
Yoruba ladies discussing Igbo men🤩🤩🤩
Don't you think that some of these Igbo - hating Yoruba thing is as a result of their girls following Igbo men just like in the case of Republic of Xenophobia.
Women will tell you I like a man who’s always available, I like when my man gives me too much attention, but it’s actually a trap. It might be fun at the beginning, she will only tolerate it until she gets forced to ask you “Are you jobless? Don’t you have anything to do with your life?”
Too much availability yields disrespect, don’t play yourself. Scarcity makes you more valuable, but being overly available decreases your value.
You become more attractive to her when she knows you’re taking your life seriously, you have goals you’re trying to reach, you’d become a man who can easily provide for his kids and teach them how to get a life since you’re goal oriented, and you’re focused on chasing success.
That’s the type of man she wants to end up with. Some of you are always texting and calling your woman 24/7, mostly out of insecurity, hoping you take all her time so she doesn’t have time for anyone else, or you seeing her everyday, hoping she doesn’t have time to cheat on you.
She doesn’t miss you at all because you’re always in her face. In a relationship, as much as it’s important to be available, being too available will ruin it quickly. She’d lose attraction for you easily.
Relationship aside, Most men who are in the friend zone got punished by these women for being too available. Some of you end up telling these women how you feel about them and they tell you “let’s remain as friends” “you’re like a brother to me” because you don’t know when to STFU.
You’ve always been available typing shitt in her dm, making her feel too comfortable around you and nothing about you looks attractive anymore. You’re just that guy she can always use to kiII boredom. She doesn’t see you beyond that.
Ask yourself why women have male best friends, guys who fooIishIy entertain people’s girlfriends, guys in the friendzone they use for attention, the comedians who crack jokes in their DMs, they got chat buddies and keep them around until it’s time to get their back blown and she knows who to go and meet, not one of those jobless boys who text her all day, but the busy man who focuses on his grind and texts her when necessary. If someone’s girlfriend is using you this way, pity your mom, Go get a job.
The more available you are, the drier she gets down there for you.
Take your life seriously, create a habit that keeps you busy daily, not only will you become more attractive that way, you also get a better life, and you’d stop putting yourself in the position to be used by these women.
Some of you, these women ignore your messages all day, until she’s bored, then she texts you and you respond with the speed of light, she then continuously use you for attention since her man is busy with his life, but you who’s not purposeful is always available.
It’s even more ridiculous when a girI always text you knowing the response she’ll get from you when she ask “are you free?” or “what are you doing?” is “I’m free” or “nothing” respectively. You don’t expect such women to take you seriously, they see you as jobless.
When these women ask you “what you doing?” Sometimes, be ashamed of your jobIessness, even when you’re doing nothing, tell her you’re busy, tell her “I’ll text you in 30 minutes, I’m busy with a project for now” “give me 1hour, I got works to do at the moment”. Have some shame!!!
Finally, the best way to handle too much availability is by truly getting busy, do something productive with your life. Have a daily routine that keeps you occupied; That way, you don’t have to stress about being too available, your daily routine won’t permit it.
Save yourself, Kings.
I repeat ;
Men,married or single , listen
1) don’t forgive a woman for what she knows she shouldn’t be forgiven, she’ll punish you and blame you for forgiving her .
2) don’t expect a girl who left her boyfriend for you , to stay faithful to you alone.
Rushing to put a ring on her finger will not suddenly make your woman loyal to you.
Women are only loyal to their feelings and emotions,
They are never loyal to you as their man.
Only men who are capable of handling and stirring up their woman's emotions,
Are the ones who will taste how true female loyalty feels like.
Join me to become a better man.
Harsh reality. Most women who go to work have work husbands/boyfriends. Work husbands actually exist. Your woman will be in a relationship with you back home, but simultaneously also in one with a workmate/boss
She gets to do all the things a wife would do for a husband - packs lunch for him and obviously sleep together, either in the office, car or lodges. And that's why your woman is hardly in the mood, because she's getting it somewhere
Real passionate sex, not the boring sex you have with her. Think about it, the thrill of having sex in the office, bending her ass on the chair, desk, cupboards unlike with you on your flat boring bed. No wonder she's hardly in the mood
Those late hours at the office, it's not really work but just some late night knacking. Why do you think she's excited when they have seminars/workshops, that's a well deserved vacation with her work husband, far away from you
That time you'll be texting "be safe babe" oh yes she's safe, safe in her work husband's hands. Which is why it's important to visit your woman's workplace randomly. Even if you don't see her cheating, you may be shocked to see a man who resembles your funny looking kids back home. Not to mention the funny looks her workmates give you
This is why by all means every man should strive to earn more, so that your woman can stay home, this work thing is risky. Infact if your woman works, they're high chances, she has already cheated, she is cheating or she will cheat. How you handle that is entirely up to you
Learn OR perish!!!
@Mohlapa_M @yrnjulius @f___izzy @Filiusdeiniger1 @BongoIdeas @Ababraids You tweet like daft person….women needs to be love period, a man who can sacrifice for a woman isn’t that love?