A person can do something that hu*rts your feelings without intending to hurt you. A person can d! sappoint you while still caring about you. A person can forget something important to you without forgetting your value. A person can be struggling silently while you are wondering why they aren't showing up the way you expected. This is why we should separate what happened from what we believe it means. What happened: They didn't reply. What we assumed: They don't respect me.
You flashed me with your whatsapp line, so i called you back with same line and you refused to pick because it’s not your call line.
Mehn people are weird fr.
A 37 years old married woman is currently 6 weeks pregnant.
She has been married for more than 7 years without any child (I don't want to state the exact number of years).
She and her husband have both subjected themselves to several tests and they're fine.
They have both been very transparent with their individual results and have been "waiting on the lord" all these years.
However, now she's pregnant.
And the pregnancy is not for her husband but for one of her exes who is also married with his own kids.
The ex doesn't know that she is pregnant and her husband doesn't know that she's pregnant.
She desperately wants to become a mother and is ruling out abortion.
Her problem is how to break the news to her husband and she's hoping that the child will at least look more like her than her ex, so that there won't be any suspicions.
After reading, I had to swallow spit because this one is not what I would usually give any advise on.
She's 37 and needs a child. And she's banking on the fact that since her husband is medically fine, he will be happy that "God has finally answered their prayers".
And she's willing to take the secret to her grave. No one else knows this secret except me, her, God and devil.
AJD.
A man (36) and his fiancée (30) are set to wed in the 1st week of December thus year.
Plans are already in top gear.
Then recently, she became pregnant.
Both of them discussed the way forward peacefully, and concluded that they will terminate the pregnancy.
However, the man slept over this decision and decided to change his mind.
He assessed the situation of things, the risks and since they'd be married in just about two months, there was no need to terminate the pregnancy.
The next day, he told his fiancée about his change of mind.
But she is not accepting to keep the pregnancy.
Her excuse is that the pregnancy will affect her wedding plans and weigh her down.
The man and his fiancée are practically not involved in the wedding preparations.
Both families have taken that burden off them. Infact, they only plan to travel to the location (different state) one week to the wedding date.
So he doesn't understand why she's using that as an excuse.
He insists that she must not terminate the pregnancy, she says she'll not keep it.
Then he told her to inform her family about her pregnancy, and her decision not to keep it. In case anything goes wrong, her family must know that he wasn't in support of terminating the pregnancy.
She refused, and insisted that her family must not know about it.
I have simply told the man that I support his decision. And that he should tell his fiancée that if she's sure that the pregnancy belongs to him, she'll not terminate it.
By using those exact words, it will make her think or perhaps, expose what is not being said.
I have also advised him to call her family and his, to inform them of the development. And state categorically that, he is not in support of abortion.
And that if anything happens to her or the baby, he will not be held liable for it.
Also, terminating the pregnancy may make him halt all the wedding plans and rethink his decision to marry her.
He agrees with me and that's exactly what he's going to do today.
They have been quarreling over this issue for about a week now.
AJD.
A PRAYER FOR ALL THE FIRSTBORNS
To every firstborn,
May you find clarity when life feels uncertain.
May strength meet you in every responsibility.
May favour lead you to the right opportunities.
May you never lack what you need.
May wisdom guide your decisions.
May your sacrifices never cost you your peace.
May you receive the same love you freely give.
May God lighten your burdens.
May your dreams have room to breathe.
May you find support when you need it.
May your efforts bring meaningful rewards.
May you flourish beyond your responsibilities
May God go ahead of you, remain beside you, and hold you up when you grow tired.