I really love the idea of a Christian who quietly fixes their walk with God and tells no one.
They just start waking up for early morning prayer. Start opening their Bible every day. Start giving quietly and generously. Start interceding for others in secret.
No post. No story update. No "look at my spiritual growth" caption.
Just a quiet transformation that only Heaven noticed the kind Jesus talked about when He said, “Your Father who sees in secret will reward you.”
That’s the true flex. Not the public testimony. The secret-place consistency.
I fed my husband a high fertility diet for 12 months before conceiving in the first try 🙃
His diet consisted of:
- Daily: (raw) milk, butter, salt, dairy, beef, eggs, fresh fruit/OJ, 1 Brazil nut, carb source like (sweet) potato and (pine) honey
- Multiple times a week: sardines, oysters, bone marrow, ice cream, coffee with milk and sugar, sourdough, jam, chicken, ice cream, bone broth or salmon head soup, white fish
12 months of 0 alcohol, 0 cigarettes, 0 drugs.
WE'VE BEEN OPTIMIZING THE WRONG HALF, focussing mostly on the woman's fertility 🤭
“I'm sorry” can sometimes just be a way to end an argument. A proper apology requires you to actually understand what you did, how it affected the other person, and take responsibility for it.
“I’m sorry for saying that to you. I understand why it hurt you, and I shouldn’t have said it that way”, that's proper apology and accountability.
Birthday habits that I find cringe.
1. posting your account number
2. Sending your pictures to people to post you on their status if they don’t ask.
3. Sending your pictures to a group, saying “Happy Birthday to me”
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I had same experience too. Don’t just say “I am sorry”. Genuinely apologize for what you did wrong, take responsibility for your mistakes and make sure it doesn’t happen again. I call it a proper apology
One habit I picked up from someone I dated many years ago and I still practice till date is detailed apology.
In her words "Olayinka, I'm sorry is not a complete apology. What exactly are you sorry for?"