If you're not giving a woman peace as a man, it will be hard to get peace in return.
We all know what we are doing, treat others the way you want to be treated.
Don’t tie your healing to the hope that someone is going to someday regret what they did to you. Some people do not regret doing you wrong. Some even forget doing you wrong. Some are unaware of their wrongdoing. Some will never accept that they did you wrong.
Cheating is abuse and it's weird how yall try to downplay it. It's not just a character flaw, it's a moral one. Cheating can cause psychological damage, long-term trust issues, insecurities, panic attacks, and PTSD, just to name a few. You are psychologically scarring the person who loves you more than anything in the world. I'm so sick of this debate. You don't get to traumatize someone, rewire their brain chemistry, and then say "it's not that bad"
What I find very disturbing is how dispensable we make wives sound in this part of the world.
“Send her to her father’s house”. “Divorce her”.
“Take another and let her have competition”.
Almost like they are objects to be replaced and not partners to reconcile and live with.
I think one of the most heartfelt experiences in life is discovering that someone genuinely enjoys your presence. Not what you provide, Not your accomplishments. Just you, your thoughts, your energy, your existence.
Underrated life hacks:
- pray first thing every morning, last thing every night
- always keep an open notebook and pen within sight
- halve the amount time you allot yourself to read books & do your work
- extend your vision out by 5-10 years, then reverse engineer to present
- every time you catch yourself worrying, immediately surrender it to God
- never stop learning, ever, no matter what
- recognize no one is stopping you more than yourself
all relationships can survive mistakes, but they cannot survive patterns. Repeated behavior isn't a mistake, it's a decision, apologies lose meaning when the actions never change
Pattern Recognition is also the form of intelligence that causes the most stress.
You will see things that others do not.
You'll feel crazy.
Things will be *so obvious* to you, and others will just deny it.
The same abortion you push this women to have when they come with “I’ve not seen my period” is the same abortion you want to shame them with?
You’ll shame women for not knowing how what to do in bed, but still shame them for having sex with multiple guys
Shame women for not getting wet but still shame them for wanting to use lube
Shame women for being natural as they aren’t “up to standard” and still shame them for enhancing their looks
Reasons why I advice people to live for themselves, do what you want and not seek validation from anyone especially from these online people lol