“Though we have heard of stupid haste in war, cleverness has never been seen associated with long delays.”
Excerpt From
The Art of War
Sun Tzu
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My biggest fear for Nigeria is no longer how bad things are.
It is that the Nigerians who have never known anything better are becoming the majority.
They have no memory of what functional looks like. No reference point for what they should expect.
And you cannot demand a standard you don’t even know exists.
Motherhood is the easiest job in marriage. ANY BODY can do it.
Women run day care centers wirh 10-20 kids daily.
A maid who can't even speak English and has never had a kid in her life can do it 10x better than mothers.
Single fathers raise the BEST generation of kids. The stats don't lie.
Now go try to HIRE someone to be a provider. Go find someone to pay 100% or 80% of your bills for 20 years, buy you a house, buy you a car, protect you at night.
You can't. Because NOBODY wants that job. That's why women beg for marriage than men.
Marriage is about DUTY, not happiness. That's why they read you the vows so you understand clearly what it means:
"In sickness and in health till death do us part."
It never said "till I'm unhappy." It never mentioned happiness once.
women had the EASIER job in marriage. The older kids get, the LESS stressful your job gets. A 10 year old can wash plates. A 15 year old can cook. Your job gets easier every year.
Fathers don't have that privilege. Bills don't get reduced. Bills don't stop. Rent goes UP. School fees go UP. Food goes UP. His job gets HARDER every year.
That's why men die of heart attack and high blood pressure more than women. That's why there are more WIDOWS than widowers. Your "suffering" lets you live to 90. His "privilege" puts him in the grave at 60. Women's job is easier. Period.