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[Leackin Munane @LMunane]

Il y a eu une période dans ma vie où je croyais sincèrement que mes meilleures années étaient derrière moi.

Après mon divorce, j’avais l’impression que la vie de tout le monde avançait, tandis que la mienne était en train de recommencer à zéro.

[Machiavelli Bot @UnmodernmanBot]

How to become a high value man by end of 2025.

Before December comes, this thread will guide you to prepare yourself in identifying your values, prioritising them in a hierarchical structure, orient yourself on a path of least resistance and start making sacrifices to obtain them, transforming you into a man of value.

Write down your values.

For a man, your apex value should be abundance.

You must attain it, or at least be on a path that will lead to its attainment.

If you are too distracted in your pursuit of women and indulgences, stop reading here.

What does it mean to attain your apex value on a path of least resistance?

It means you will orient yourself in a strategic manner that will lessen as many obstacles in your way of attaining your value.

Your choices & time allocation will be devoted to this value.

This means to count your moves.

To make moves in the form of sacrifices, strictly related to your apex value.

Moves that negotiate with the future and force your apex value to come to you.

Count each one, & stay on the path.

You will achieve abundance in two ways;

1. Leverage Competence

2. Begin your own start up

To leverage competence, you will first need to take stock of your current job description, pinpoint what you’re expected to do & what you get paid for.

Then, you will seek to deliver your job description at an exceptional level.

You will leave no room for negligence or incompetence.

You will not worry about recognition, and aim to perfect what you are required to do.

When ready, you will leverage your perfection, to uptake more responsibility+authority, not money.

You will negotiate that you currently do ABC for X amount,

but you are willing to do ABCDE for 2 months, and if you deliver, you will rightfully request positional ascendency.

When you become exceptional in your line of work, you create specific-knowledge-like asymmetry.

Any asymmetry you create in your favour, can be leveraged.

Exchange the value you generate easily, for the value you want.

When I worked as a pharmacist, I dispensed at 30 seconds per medication, when others took 10min.

I leveraged this to reduce staff, then leveraged to implement systems for cost efficiency, which made me a manager, & leveraged for corporate.

Study the scenario, find the leverage.

While you exercise this, you will record, print weekly reports of every sale, every profit, every satisfied customer under your name and construct an impeccable CV.

So when the bosses don’t play nice, you can leverage this as a threat.

If you are successful in your promotion, repeat the process. Find leverage in your new found responsibilities.

You are not pursuing more money.

You are pursuing more responsibility and authority.

Money will come after.

Leverage competence for positional power.

Your competence in your job should be part of the system.

You do not want your competence to self-automate in your absence.

You want to become so good at what you do, that the business falls apart without you.

Generate reliance to cement your leverage. Avoid redundancy.

Option 2 is start up. If you want to start your own business, in my opinion it is a brutal path to take.

Have a stable job before taking the risk in going for a startup. You must maintain a stable income stream for this option.

You are not an entrepreneur if you are not making weekly progress.

If you want to start your own business, you must have a clear deadline for weekly action & progress.

Investors check progress, worth ethic & personality before investing.

Your journey to abundance will kill off so many undesirable parts of you, that you will inevitably transform who you are.

You’ll be forced to become strategic, think ahead, be cunning and ambitious.

A force to contend with.

If you don’t become disagreeable in your quest for abundance, you are not devoting enough time for your apex value:

-you come first
-competitive
-less social
-assertive
-insubordinate
-value driven
-time conscious

unconcerned for anything petty & frivolous.

These qualities developed as a side effect in your path to abundance, are the traits that make you attractive.

Combine this with your capacity to provide, your accountability & competence, it makes you a high value man.

Your aim before December

1. Acknowledge apex value as abundance

2. Pinpoint the position you are seeking.

3. Pinpoint your path towards it

4. Pinpoint your job description

4. Write down how to excel in it

5. Plan on how you’ll leverage it once excelled

By 2024, you should have improved your current position and developed,

-Responsibility
-Confidence
-Authority
-Credibility
-Leadership
-Disagreeableness

Don’t stop. You’re set to dominate 2024.

The lesson in this article is to understand leverage.

When you become exceptionally competent in one domain,

you can leverage it on the dominance hierarchy and ultimately increase your value.

This lesson can be applied to many contexts.

[Machiavelli Bot @UnmodernmanBot]

The average man is too honest in places where he should be strategic, and too dishonest in places where he should be accountable. He reveals his plans to strangers, but lies to himself about his habits. Power begins when you reverse this. Be private with the world. Be mercilessly honest with yourself.

[CASSIUS @CassiusAnalyse]

Le caractère d'un homme ne se mesure pas dans le manque. Il se mesure devant l'abondance. Il est facile de se dire humble quand rien ne vous est offert, fidèle quand personne ne vous désire, intègre quand aucune somme n'est posée sur la table. Seul le choix révèle un homme, et il n'y a de choix que là où il existait une autre option. Une vertu qui n'a jamais été confrontée à l'accès réel aux ressources n'est pas encore une morale. C'est souvent une impuissance qui s'est trouvé un nom noble.

[CASSIUS @CassiusAnalyse]

À 33 ans, Rockefeller était déjà milliardaire.
À 38 ans, il contrôlait 90% du pétrole américain.
Il allait à l'église chaque dimanche. Et ruinait ses concurrents chaque lundi.

Il avait compris quelque chose que ses rivaux n'ont jamais voulu admettre : la majorité des hommes sont fondamentalement FAIBLES. Et il avait construit un système entier pour exploiter cette faiblesse.

5 stratégies qu'on ne vous enseignera jamais dans une école de commerce. 🧵

[Lawrence Kitema @lawrencekitema]

Good morning! It's a new day full of opportunities and possibilities. Step out with purpose, stay focused on your goals, and give your best in all you do. Every effort counts, and every small win moves you closer to the future you desire. Have a productive day!

[Victor Ogbaegbe 🇨🇦💐 @naughty_libra07]

One morning, I entered a bus at Agege heading towards the island.

As a proper Nigerian, I squeezed myself into the last seat because “one person can still enter” 😭
Less than two minutes after the bus moved, I started regretting my life choices.

The smell inside that bus was a combination of old sweat, a soaked shirt, and yesterday’s stress.
Omo… I wound down the window immediately.

The conductor thought I was feeling hot.
My brother, it was not hot. It was survival.

The woman beside me brought out a handkerchief and covered her nose.

Another passenger started spraying body mist inside the bus like an emergency rescue mission.

At one point, the driver shouted:
“Who forget say deodorant dey exist?”

Everybody laughed, but deep down we were all suffering 😂
Please, before leaving your house, wear a good cologne or deodorant.

Lagos is already stressful enough. Don’t let your body odor become another public challenge.

You don’t need an expensive perfume. Just smell clean, fresh, and considerate.

Rian sells affordable perfumes. Please buy and put them in your bag. Don't suffocate people.

[Lawrence Kitema @lawrencekitema]

We stress too much about a life that can end at any time. Make sure to live.

[Lawrence Kitema @lawrencekitema]

You only have one life to live, so make it meaningful. Choose happiness, chase your dreams, and never let fear stop you from becoming the person you were meant to be. Live with purpose, love sincerely, and create memories worth remembering.

[Lawrence Kitema @lawrencekitema]

Good morning! It's a new day full of opportunities and possibilities. We left home with one mission: to change the situation. There is no glory in poverty. Do whatever you can to fight that enemy.

[Lawrence Kitema @lawrencekitema]

You're actually not broke; you're just facing life without Daddy's money, rich relatives, connections, or selling your body. You're such a great person, standing strong in the storm.

[Adekunbi🌹❤️ @Adhekunbi]

Men will chase you to the end of the earth just to leave you there😂

[𝕷𝖊 𝕸𝖆𝖗é𝖈𝖍𝖆𝖑 👑🇨🇩 @Marechal001]

Tu peux être gentil, fidèle et humble. Sans argent, dans beaucoup de familles, ton avis ne compte même pas.
𝕏 • Esprit du Maréchal

[Waly legrand @Waly_legrand]

Petite par la taille immense quand il s'agit de se faire remarquer.

[Skill of Life @skill_of_life]

Selfishness poisons loyalty. Selfish people think they're clever for putting themselves first, but all they do is rot the foundation of trust. Their greed makes them predictable, their alliances fragile, and their victories short-lived. Loyalty never survives in their orbit.

[~𝑩𝒂𝒃𝒂𝒄𝒂𝒓🤴🏾🇸🇳 @__booga_b_]

Si ça peut s'écrire, s'il te plaît n'appelle pas.

[MoonLinght @CastilloLe58494]

CÓMO DESARROLLAR PRESENCIA MASCULINA QUE SE SIENTE CUANDO ENTRAS A UN LUGAR:

1. Entra despacio y sin prisa nunca

[K. @Keiinzo]

Le plus gros mensonge de la vie : JE SERAI LA POUR TOI , SANS TOI MA VIE N’EST RIEN.. complète la liste

[Victoria Olamide👸😍❤️ @VikyInsights]

Marry the guy with the messy child hood. The one who has experienced tremendous suffering from those he loved, yet chose to heal and rebuild himself. He might be difficult at times. His emotions are strong, and won't remain silent. He will challenge you to be better, call you out on your BS and carry the weight of the world in her heart. But he will love you and your children like nothing you've ever known. He knows suffering and will do everything in his power to prevent his children from experiencing the same. If you can give him a safe love, he will go to war and face the storm over and over to protect your family. ❤️

#VikyInsights