doing the work doesn’t just mean journaling and liking self-help tweets. it involves a deep-dive into understanding how our own patterns impact/hurt others and cause us to give up on healthy connections before they can begin. growth equals accountability during hard conversations
i don't like how inconsiderate y'all be. you can do it to other people, mistreat them, ghost them, etc but when it's done to y'all, life ain't fair, you deserve better, how could something like that happen to you, etc. y'all are so one sided and selfish, shit will never work fr.