I met this man and he came to mow my lawn while I was at work , did it without trying to shoot at me and didn’t make me pay ( I offered ) got reimbursed my lunch money twice and got send send hotels for a trip to Turks this December that will be paid for in full.. I love outside
I always say feeling sorry for a man will backfire/be your downfall almost every time. That need to give them grace and the benefit of the doubt--yeah, you WILL be shown exactly why it's better to be strict and get them out your face at the first sign of foolery.
Let him go. Let him be the one lying awake at night, haunted by the realization that he let slip a woman who offered him unwavering loyalty, boundless love, and radiant light. Let him sit in crowded rooms, feeling the hollow ache of your absence remembering how you showed up without hesitation, believed in him fiercely, and poured into him freely, only to be taken for granted.
It’s not your duty to plead for someone to recognize your worth or to fight for scraps of effort. A woman like you doesn’t chase love; love is meant to find you, because you are genuine, extraordinary, and full of light. If he couldn’t see the gift you were, that’s his loss, not yours. You didn’t lose him he lost you.
Stay tender yet unshakable. Never dim your brightness to fit where you don’t belong. The right one will meet your energy, guard your heart, and love you as if you’re the answer to every prayer they’ve ever whispered. Keep loving yourself fiercely, because what’s coming is better and it will be worth every moment of the wait
I hope I marry a man who loves me like I'm the air he breathes. A man who would never be okay with hurting me, who will go above & beyond just to see me happy, who admires me like I'm the prettiest girl to exist, who doesn't have eyes for other girls bcz he's too busy loving me
If love ever finds me again, May the universe let me meet someone who loves me as deeply as I do. Someone who is never okay with hurting me. Someone who is loyal, kind & devoted. Someone who will never make me feel unwanted. Someone who feels like home & also finds home in me >
I pray I marry a man who actually wants to be married. A man who isn't out here embarrassing the family we created.. I pray I marry an honest, hardworking, loving man. I pray he has morals, goals, and boundaries. even when things get tough between us he won't give up and tries >
Before you sleep ask God to help you to trust in Him more & to lean on Him always. Sometimes because we don’t trust God, we take things into our own hands. But truth is God can accomplish far more with your surrender than you could ever achieve with your control. Let go & Let God
Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that isn’t meant to work. You can’t force someone to care about you. You can’t force someone to be loyal. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be.
Sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without. You have to understand that some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come into your life, just not meant to stay. Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what’s meant to stay broken.
You can’t get the relationship you need from someone who’s not ready to give it to you. And you might not understand why now, but I promise you, your future will always bring understanding of why things didn’t work out.
Trust me. Don’t put your happiness on hold for someone who isn’t holding on to you. Some chapters just have to close without closure.
Cheating on someone you share a home with isn't just betrayal it's psychological warfare. You're eating their food, sleeping in their bed, building routines together while deliberately dismantling their trust. It takes calculated cruelty to look someone in the eye daily while hiding an affair under the same roof.
This isn't about impulse it's sustained deception. Every shared chore, every night together becomes part of the lie. You weaponize the intimacy they offer, using your home as camouflage for betrayal. The proximity makes it worse: their toothbrush beside yours as you text your lover, their laundry in the machine while you plan meetups.
Real partners don't exploit cohabitation as cheating camouflage. If you're unhappy, leave. But choosing to betray someone in their own space; that's not a lapse in judgment it's character revealed. The ultimate insult is expecting them to keep your shared life intact after you've blown it apart.
a therapist on tiktok said…. “no one notices your sadness until it turns into anger, and then you’re the problem. healing is realizing you became the angry person because no one saw your sadness first” felt that.