I was saying what about me as a man helping another man out, I’m just trying to point out that some people genuinely are hero’s, no cape needed at all they just help and I would hope that their partner at least would know that… she does to be fair but she hasn’t accepted that part… then why are you in the relationship the vetting period should of been a bit longer if she only found out afterwards otherwise there’s no excuse you know what you signed up for…… and you trusted it, so don’t get scared or try to manipulate the situation to get what you want just leave, ya made a mistake that’s ok.
@f0lake It’s more a reality that is observed than it is something we want to be true…. Sometimes when people die it makes shit better even if no one wants to admit it.
It’s as natural as you get hungry.
If this was true (it’s not) consider that people want to move on, millions die every day can’t be in the moment if I let everything stop me from moving, if you want to help become a pilot and help lessen the death toll idk what you want us to say…..how about starting the conversation instead of saying “no one wants to say anything” like obviously you don’t either if you have to lead with a feeling like that, that’s genuine concern imo and we can blame all we want but it doesn’t fix a thing
people aren’t oblivious to the obvious red flags around them, we just do what we can always have and always will we care so we move on and do our part everyday what if I need to go fly a plane Ion need this messing with my ability to perform lol I’m half joking there (you should be able to stabilize yourself) but there’s some truth to that for someone out there I suspect most people especially the up and comers of the world the novices failure is apart of life and some times that means losing lives this should make you want to lock in to not be the reason 68 people died.
Public affection, well there’s levels of acceptability here and we like to play/push them up or down because it feels naughty that’s what makes it naughty but yeah probably shouldn’t do this in public but at a party or social event that has context around it this should be fine I.e if this is people at a skating rink I think this is proper context but if this was out at Starbucks I’d be like get a room freaks!!
@fraxiommusic Small Correction when we correlated arts worth to only being good if it was content.
Good genuine art can also be good genuine content but that’s few and far between I know…
I would agree if only we all agreed on what normal is but we don’t all agree, handfuls of divided communities have different ideas of what’s normal that’s the problem with the internet it makes us feel connected but we aren’t in reality so it muddies the water on what’s normal and not in everyday life at least for the uninformed and impressionable and that’s alot of us only because there’s no way you actually understand what it is to be apart of another community that you haven’t been directly involved in.
Doesn’t mean we shouldn’t hold people accountable for their actions btw but responding on the same level is a contradiction ex: programming a robot in the home to attack back, like what the fuck how do you not understand the implications of what was said/supported, then you wanna say they had it coming and that you are in the right it goes against your own code.
Those stats are not the end all be all on if men in general will be violent toward children.
Animals have instincts and are just as dangerous as us.
Women have the same ability as us - the force but you only need so much force to harm.
Power is the ability to make things move in the desired manner…. This includes charm and physical and even I dare say it spiritual but that’s another topic.
Children are the only real innocence in this world but those who prey on them are just creeps, pedo’s, and weirdo’s not this….
I could be wrong though it’s just my feeling on it women like to act powerless and I don’t mean the victims btw I mean the ones who do nothing to gain power when they can, not women’s fault when we (Society) tell them they are helpless all their life.
So you are not crazy for thinking this is ok but is that really comparable a sexual act vs a act of getting someone to a hospital I bet the silence happened because he couldn’t believe you could make such a comparison (amazed at the stupidity you could say) you aren’t stupid btw, at the same time it’s good to be honest and if doesn’t sit right with you and they don’t listen to what you say why not just leave I have a feeling that you killed apart of him but I hope I’m wrong on that one.
It’s is possible to just want to help people you thinking other shit is going to happen is your insecurity he should know your insecurities and be mindful but you should be mindful and address you insecurities also find your confidence you got that man no need to give him a reason to stay shouldn’t he want to be with you and shouldn’t you be confident in you ability to trust him.
@brocksator@princesspopthat Time is money too can’t refund that she could have been on break now she has to work hungry.
That principal alone is something worth outing her on cause ain’t nobody got time for it to happen again, the less of these people doing this the better for everyone.
I agree and understand but I wouldn’t say it’s abuse as the intent is to help but I would say:
I’m offended that you would try to help me without even simply asking me if I want the help.
unsolicited help is the worst because the person trying to help doesn’t necessarily understand the actual problem and they would if they just asked and broke down where the patient’s personal problems are.
If you aren’t willing to do a bit of therapy then you will end up making the ship crash faster so either crash the ship, or support from a distance otherwise you drive yourself crazy which in addition drives the patient crazy cause now you have all this unnecessary stress because “I told you XYZ last week” yeah well I wasn’t ready to hear that, is my input not important to you I thought this was a team!!
I know now that it doesn’t matter if you are ready or not because challenging things are good for you…..but it took ME, myself to actually grasp that concept being on the other side of it (trying to help people who seem like they needed help yeah I’m a hypocrite 😂).