The Grandmothers gave the mothers bad advice out of survival. The mothers gave the daughter’s bad advice out of pain. The daughter’s must take what they’ve been told and unlearn what doesn’t fit. Breaking generational curses sometimes looks like not listening to your elders.
Black boys/men heavily need classes on empathy, rape culture, woman’s studies, sex Ed. This list goes on. They need to learn about community. Niggas gon say i’m pandering but that’s exactly why you need the classes. Step outside yourselves and take accountability.
Ppl will have you doubting your own sane and proven thoughts to dodge acknowledgment. They rather make you seem like you’re out of your black ass mind, before they are willing to own up to their actions or how they move. Again, Nope.. nmm nmm, get somebody else to do it
I don’t play semantics w. anyone. I think it’s manipulative. If I say “The color is pink” and you say every variation and description of the color pink, while arguing that it’s not the color pink, We’re done talking. Ppl will knit-pick your worlds to deflect, deflect, deflect. Na
Real friends won't always tell you what you want to hear. They'll provide different perspectives, challenge your beliefs, identify when you're not living to your potential and will make you questions things. These are the qualities to seek in a friend + embody as one.
You dont come to repentance without something escorting you there. Never condemn those ready to follow the light. A lot of the time we just need better discernment to begin with. 🤍