INFJGay

Gay male traveller fascinated by personalities, lost among persons, driven to understand. #INFJ #MBTI #9w1 #cello

[INFJGay @InfjGay]

How much do you hold back when getting to know someone? Like 90% or just the usual 110%? Why do we do this to ourselves? #infj Intimacy is the last thing I am afraid of...

[INFJGay @InfjGay]

A hug. Just one hug. Omg isn't it amazing? Just one long hug. Please 🙏🏽.

[INFJGay @InfjGay]

Never let yourself be at the mercy of the unpredictability of others. The only things we can control are our actions and our reactions #infj #stoicism

[INFJGay @InfjGay]

I will happily listen to the same song on an endless loop while I work. For hours on end. Currently it is Cathedral by MJ Cole. So #infj. This habit drives my #ESTJ bf completely nuts! 🤔🥰💋I also love Suspirium

[INFJGay @InfjGay]

Today, a friend told me I only have one smile - and he is right. All the pics are the same. But it isn't fake, it's just the only face I know how to make in public. On the inside I am : 💋💥💐🎈🥰🍾🎁🐑🥳🐰🕺🏼💃#infj Get me in private - then we will really talk (and smile).

[INFJGay @InfjGay]

Where do we find true beauty in human relationships? With absolute trust. Knowing someone will never intentionally hurt you and that everything they do is designed to support you, even if you cannot see it at first and when it is right in front of your face. #infj

[INFJGay @InfjGay]

The #infj door slam does not resonate with me. Either you won't get your foot in the door at all or you'll have built up credit in the loyalty bank that you will slowly squander through poor behaviour. It is like water dripping on a sugar cube - one day it is gone & we are done.

[INFJGay @InfjGay]

@VioletaML2 Gracias querida! 🙏🏽

[INFJGay @InfjGay]

Rejected by the bi-guy who is going back to the straight-girl who physically abused him - a lot - after accusing him of abusing her for grabbing her wrist - once - to ask her to listen to him about how he really felt and who apologized for that dick move endlessly. I am confused.

[INFJGay @InfjGay]

I don't care about sex. I care about deep connection. I don't give a shit about the size of your dick or your rocking bod or anything physical about you. I care about what I cannot see - your true heart, your soul, the essence of you. Do you dare to show me?

[INFJGay @InfjGay]

I just want a hug from somebody who wants to hug me #infj

[INFJGay @InfjGay]

@Sathnam Excellent - it just keeps getting better. Many congratulations on an brilliant contribution to so many debates and issues.

[INFJGay @InfjGay]

@Sathnam I am a gay Scot living in Sri Lanka and I am currently devouring #Empireland - a fantastic read, thank you. Learning so much. Only 25% through and wondering if you will say anything about gay relations during Empire...

[INFJGay @InfjGay]

Today I discovered the one objective in life that makes my heart sing: trust. Not love, not friendship, not faith - but earning someone's unqualified trust. It is a truly beautiful, fragile and precious gift. Animals understand, humans struggle. Our aim is to earn trust #infj

[INFJGay @InfjGay]

@HeidiPriebe1 Reconciling the hard logic messages from Ti telling me - this person is manipulating you - with the soft fuzzies from Fe telling me - yeah, but they have problems, give 'em one more chance. Fe almost always wins despite my "better judgement". Fi doesn't stand for that crap.

[INFJGay @InfjGay]

I once read that "absolutely everyone is important to the #infj, everyone". It is so true and most of the time it is a lovely trait to have. I care about your heart not whether you are a CEO or a movie star. But the downside is that everyone gets a piece of you. Everyone. Always.

[INFJGay @InfjGay]

Is your desire to be right stronger than your drive to be kind, or vice versa? For me, as a strong Fe user, I almost always choose kindness and keep quiet. I don't need to prove I am right - I know I am! 😏 But, is it ultimately defeating to withhold on another person? #infj

[INFJGay @InfjGay]

The more I like someone, the more I ignore them. Of course, in reality I am noticing every little thing about them. But they will never know it. God, I hate me. #infj

[INFJGay @InfjGay]

"You are not beautiful, only your age is beautiful." So true. True and lasting beauty is found inside. #infj #introvert Look inside. Ask questions about the true person.

[INFJGay @InfjGay]

Active listening and pursuing someone's line of conversation is crucially to supporting them and getting to know them better. But what are the strategies for encouraging them to do the same in return? #infj Most people do not ask questions and then really listen to your answers.

[Psychology Today @PsychToday]

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