Find a woman you can trust and handles herself under pressure.
Can't trust her? She looses her shit over little things? Can't handle what life throws at her?
You are signing up for a life of hell.
Your money is already in the world.
It is sitting in the pockets, bank accounts, budgets, and businesses of people across different cities, countries, and industries.
It is not with you yet, not because it does not belong to you, but because there is not yet a clear enough path for it to find its way back to you.
Lmao, you’re missing the point.
Mark met Priscilla when he was still a student at Harvard. They were together for about 9 years or so before they got married. She was becoming a doctor; he was building Facebook. Their relationship existed long before the billions, the fame and the status.
I'd always prefer someone who can sit with me when life is no longer exciting and still be your best friend. Someone who I can build a family with, a business and a home and a life with.
Yes I know physical attraction matters. But attraction is not the same thing as building a life together.
But can beauty alone manage your empire?
There was something Mark saw in her beyond love. That's companionship and partnership.
i dare you to be as delusional as possible for 30 days. compliment strangers. ask for things that feel out of your reach. take shot after shot after shot. you won’t hit them all, but you’ll hit a couple. but what you hit isn’t the point. it’s about rewiring what you see as possible. when you remove your self imposed limits, you realize they were never real to begin with. anything is possible my friend. but it’s up to you to pursue it.
Here is a truth nobody tells you early enough.
The real reason to chase more money is not the cars or the clothes.
It is time.
Money, spent wisely, buys back your hours.
That washing machine gives you back a Saturday morning.
The dishwasher hands you an extra hour with your kids.
A good fridge lets you cook once on Saturday and eat well all week, instead of standing over a pot every single night.
Hiring help for the tasks that drain you is not laziness. It is buying back your one life, piece by piece.
So do not just work to afford things.
Work to afford time.
Time to sleep. Time to rest. Time to be happy. That was always the point.
That’s how you remember your partner.
They will be your best-friend, lover and all
Was it all rosey? No. Did they quarrel at some point? Yes. These are normal things in relationships. But see how he speaks of her fondly.
That’s where we should all aspire to be.
I was with a colleague today and he was telling me that he just got married, i asked him why he didn’t send me an IV cos he was in my office last month and he told me that there was no ceremony at all. No reception, no church wedding, he just collected list from his wife’s family, bought everything, called his brother who’s a pastor and went with him and his family to pay dowry. I asked him if his wife was okay with it and he said “Pharm in this life ehn, just marry a woman that understands you”. No more questions asked, i just congratulated him.
The real money is health.
Not me hearing that the owner of the supermarket I always partronise has died.
From nowhere … She just slumped.
God please.
You guys should do health checkups often 😞😞😞
One of my favorite midnight pass time is reflecting on the irony of life.
To die, you have to live. To live, you have to die.
For light to shine, darkness needs to exist.
When you're comfortable with being misunderstood, the people who understand you begin to surface.
My Dad never believed in children studying without playing. In fact, when picking out schools, if the play ground was not massive, we were not attending it. He believes children need to play. I believe it too. From primary school to university, my dad ensured I had ball to take to school to play.
This fatherhood you people are enjoying, I go meet una for front. Until then, I want to buy ball for my neighbour's son. He is in JSS 2. I want him to play proper football with his friends.